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why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
i am sick and tired of being the nice guy and treating women with the utmost respect, only to get the same response: oh, i'm not ready for a relationship, or, i like you, but just as a friend. i am like any other guy too though, some sex would be nice. but the thing i would like the most is for a girl i like and get to know, actually want to take the friendship into somehting more for once. help.....
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| January 26, 2007, 17:15 |
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yepper12
73 / male
Jeffersonville, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
Join the club!!!!!!!! I'm in the same boat. Oh well
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| January 26, 2007, 17:59 |
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lizonya
63 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
you may be looking too hard and trying too hard. if you get some other interests or hobbies and instead of being all doting and stuff, you could intrigue a lady by just being independent and confident. it'll happen, just gotta be patient and not expect it.
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| January 26, 2007, 18:04 |
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
first off, i don't know what doting means. but i have been told i come on a little storn, and i'm working on that. as far as hobbies go, i love to hunt, fish, and camp. i also just started playing guitar again. i'm also a huge movie guy. i do appreciate your advice though, thx
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| January 26, 2007, 18:34 |
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
no one chases what's easily had... if that makes sense.
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| January 26, 2007, 19:12 |
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
what a surprise, i've heard that before too. but the thing is, does that mean i have to turn into an asshole to women? cuase' if it does, i refuse to do it. thx for the clarification though on doting. 
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| January 26, 2007, 19:16 |
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
no dont become an asshole stay true to yourself your the one you have to hang out with through thick and thin, no nice guys dont always get rewarded ,believe me I know ,that said, you may get lucky and find that special woman have a nice home good kids and have great sex until youre in a walker ,or you might end up like a lot of us guys and went out and found a lot of bad ones, in our mid 40 jackin off to porno trying to pull the porcupine quills outta our ass . 
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| January 30, 2007, 20:55 |
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
Patience is Virtue.
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| January 30, 2007, 21:55 |
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NRG4U
62 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
We all want what we an't have. I don't expect to hook up cuz of my location. Be nice if it did, but I have made friends, & thats good too.
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| January 31, 2007, 00:16 |
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
Don't give up you're still young and have alot to look forward to,just be yourself,be nice,and keep trying but not to hard.I had alot of female friends but was 21 when I had sex for the first time.So hang in there!
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| January 31, 2007, 10:51 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
QUOTE (chris223 @ January 26, 2007, 18:34)first off, i don't know what doting means. but i have been told i come on a little storn, and i'm working on that. as far as hobbies go, i love to hunt, fish, and camp. i also just started playing guitar again. i'm also a huge movie guy. i do appreciate your advice though, thx
I believe she meant dating 
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| January 31, 2007, 12:02 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
If being a nice guy is who you are......There is no reason to change that for anyone!....There are some of us left who still appreciate the respect given to us and love the idea of someone being nice.......Geeez, that sounds so simple.....and normal....But we are all looking for different things in a relationship.....If a girl doesn't want a nice guy , or be treated with respect, then she is obviously not for you!.......You would never be happy in a relationship if you couldn't be yourself!......And yes, patience is a virtue!
Your still young....you can't rush love, nor should you ever settle!....You have plenty of time to find the right one for you..
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| January 31, 2007, 12:09 |
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
thx again for all the advice everyone! 
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| February 2, 2007, 00:28 |
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Re: Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ January 26, 2007, 19:12)no one chases what's easily had... if that makes sense.
perfect sense!!! people want what they can't have...being too open in the beginning isn't the best way to go, the fun of a relationship is finding things out about each other in small doses...perhaps giving too much too soon is what happens here...
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| February 4, 2007, 11:27 |
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
I agree, and keep some mystery in the relationship to start with, the getting to know each other is the best bit. Make dates adventurous and spontaneous, make it interesting. And always be yourself, the right girl will come along soon enough.
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| February 4, 2007, 11:43 |
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
I married my husband I was just a baby...the hardest parts of our life together was when we knew each other too well...a little mystery (without deceit) is a must...
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| February 4, 2007, 11:54 |
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T2007
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London, England, UK
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
You are playing guitar? That's a good start...try and get in a band or play anywhere live...you will meet someone for sure. Heed the advice...don't go out looking...just have a good time and you will get noticed.
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| February 23, 2007, 14:33 |
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dave2big
80 / male
somewhere, Nebraska, US
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
join the club friend, and the scariest part is , when you are older and DONT have money,looks,or any particular, it just gets worse. hang in there and dont turn mean, that doesnt help much either. good luck !
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| February 24, 2007, 08:07 |
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Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
Be yourself.. see where it goes.. take it from there. Nothing's written in gold.
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| February 26, 2007, 16:28 |
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Re: Re: why can't i get girls to notice me, sexually or friendly
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ January 26, 2007, 19:12)no one chases what's easily had... if that makes sense.
I like that,,,
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