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artful1
56 / male
Manhattan, New York, US
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Consensual Sex
In the throes of sexual passion,at what point could the encounter be considered non-consensual?
In my opinion,when the woman says "no" to any form of sexual inter-play.
What are your views?
Peace and Blessings,
Artful1
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| October 12, 2004, 07:00 |
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Re: Consensual Sex
there is a limit. If you are not yet "in" and I say NO, then it is a definite "NO." But if you are in and flailing away, and I suddenly say "no", then somehow I have trouble with it suddenly becoming non-consensual.
I don't really understand the way the law works on this issue. It seems that it is up to the prosecutor as to what constitutes "consensual" If he doesn't like you (Kobe), then you are screwed (literally).
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| October 12, 2004, 20:28 |
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bawbie
63 / female
mesa, Arizona, US
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Re: Consensual Sex
i would think that, at whatever stage, no is still no. even if he's "in".
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| October 13, 2004, 20:37 |
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backfromaustintx
66 / male
Burlington, Ontario, Canada
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Re: Re: Consensual Sex
QUOTE (bawbie @ October 13, 2004, 20:37) i would think that, at whatever stage, no is still no. even if he's "in".
I agree. What happens if it begins to hurt big time and you say "NO" then?
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| October 14, 2004, 06:12 |
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Re: Consensual Sex
I think the same rules would apply for a married couple as anybody else. If he's already in and she says no he should just stop. I'm not saying you can't cuss and stomp off to the bathroom to finish the job but definatly should stop and see what the heck is going on.
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| October 14, 2004, 10:16 |
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bawbie
63 / female
mesa, Arizona, US
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Re: Consensual Sex
the litmas test is "did she say no?"
can't be clearer than that.
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| October 14, 2004, 15:01 |
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Re: Re: Consensual Sex
QUOTE (bawbie @ October 14, 2004, 15:01) the litmas test is "did she say no?"
can't be clearer than that.
yeah,but let's repeat it one one time....
NO means NO !
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| October 15, 2004, 13:56 |
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Re: Consensual Sex
So, a man should spend 25 to Life in prison if he doesn't pull out instantly?
I'm just playing devil's advocate here.
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| October 15, 2004, 14:10 |
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Tease
47 / female
small town, Minnesota, US
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Re: Consensual Sex
Yes he should 
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| October 15, 2004, 14:30 |
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Re: Consensual Sex
What if he says "NO" and you are on the bottom... must you throw him to the floor getting out? If you don't shouldn't you spend life in prison?
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| October 15, 2004, 14:51 |
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bawbie
63 / female
mesa, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Consensual Sex
QUOTE (kbateman @ October 15, 2004, 14:51)What if he says "NO" and you are on the bottom... must you throw him to the floor getting out? If you don't shouldn't you spend life in prison?
absolutly. if you have him in any way restrained. but if he is free to get up himself, he would be laughed out of court.
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| October 15, 2004, 17:12 |
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Tease
47 / female
small town, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: Re: Consensual Sex
QUOTE (bawbie @ October 15, 2004, 17:12) QUOTE (kbateman @ October 15, 2004, 14:51)What if he says "NO" and you are on the bottom... must you throw him to the floor getting out? If you don't shouldn't you spend life in prison?
absolutly. if you have him in any way restrained. but if he is free to get up himself, he would be laughed out of court.
 I agree 
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| October 15, 2004, 19:13 |
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