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Could you....?
Could you get into a dating or serious relationship with an exotic dancer, or porn star ? Would you be able to get past your like jealousy ? Would you be able to tell your friends, family, co-workers about your Love's career ?
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| October 7, 2004, 11:45 |
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My brother is in a pretty serious relationship with an ex stripper. She didn't stop till a long while after they stopped dating. I hope it doesn't last!!!!
On the other hand, we have a family friend, my best friend who used to do it..... had a way to big boob job......... that we'd love to see him hook up with. They're perfect for each other!!
I got  .... sorry..... hehe  
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| October 7, 2004, 11:54 |
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QUOTE (MoonHowler @ October 7, 2004, 11:54)My brother is in a pretty serious relationship with an ex stripper. She didn't stop till a long while after they stopped dating. I hope it doesn't last!!!!
On the other hand, we have a family friend, my best friend who used to do it..... had a way to big boob job......... that we'd love to see him hook up with. They're perfect for each other!!
I got .... sorry..... hehe
..a long while after they STARTED dating.
oops
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| October 7, 2004, 11:56 |
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very big diference between porn star and exotic dancer, would not be gealous about the dancer, unless she were using the job as a way to make side love connections instead of money. The porn star on the other hand would be a little touchy, (pun is definitly intented). Would also worry about STD's and all the weirdos involved. The phone calls, possibly stalkers, The money may take the edge off if one was broke and needed the job, but then Im not in either posistion.
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| October 7, 2004, 11:58 |
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hardrock1955
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McGaheysville, Virginia, US
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Dancer possibly, porn star no way. jealousy is more of a trust issue. no prob telling folks
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| October 7, 2004, 11:59 |
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I dated a dancer for about 1 year and a half while I was in the military, no big deal with me when it came to jealousy or security issues.
A Porn star ? Date yes, Fall in love with and the whole serious relationship thing. Depends, but I doubt it.
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| October 7, 2004, 12:20 |
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QUOTE (hothands @ October 7, 2004, 11:58)very big diference between porn star and exotic dancer, would not be gealous about the dancer, unless she were using the job as a way to make side love connections instead of money. The porn star on the other hand would be a little touchy, (pun is definitly intented). Would also worry about STD's and all the weirdos involved. The phone calls, possibly stalkers, The money may take the edge off if one was broke and needed the job, but then Im not in either posistion.
Dancers yes, maybe depends on the person. Porn star nope! I like sexual woman but that's pushing it!
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| October 7, 2004, 13:14 |
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dancers no problem at all... porn stars would take one hell of a girl but still possible
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| October 7, 2004, 14:11 |
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OhYesOhYesOhYes
57 / male
Phoenix, Arizona, US
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I'm not sure why I remember this but I do...I remember seeing an interview with Traci Lords on some tv show, and she talked about the period in her life when she was dating some rock star, a Guns N Roses guy or someone like that. Anyway, she said the relationship was awful because he kept wanting to recreate sex scenes from her movies, including playing a video tape of one of her movies while making love and forcing her to assume the same positions at the same time as on screen. Can you imagine that? It's one thing to enjoy a porno with your lover...that can be very hot...but it's entirely another thing when your lover IS the porn star! Talk about treating your lover as a sex doll...
Personally, I think I could date a former porn star or stripper but not someone active in the industry because I wouldn't want to deal with the unsavory characters surrounding the performers. It's hard to say because I never had the opportunity and seriously doubt I ever will.
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| October 7, 2004, 16:04 |
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pepper
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daytona, Florida, US
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ October 7, 2004, 11:45)Could you get into a dating or serious relationship with an exotic dancer, or porn star ? Would you be able to get past your like jealousy ? Would you be able to tell your friends, family, co-workers about your Love's career ?
Everyone knows that I am a nude dancer. My guy has no problem with it, he thinks it's cool, sexy and erotic. and yes, he does brag and his family does not mind.
He knows that I'm coming home to him and no one else, and we do have lots of fun in our sex life!
As far as a porn star...well, I don't think I could and I don't think he could either.
There are always thoughts of watching one or the other gettin it on with someone else. Those are very erotic thoughts.
We never mind being watched, and we have been. I know about his sex life before me and he knows about mine before him and we're cool with that.
And with the two of us, when we're out partying and having a good time, we are always open to new possibilities and fun.
  
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| October 7, 2004, 19:37 |
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QUOTE (pepper @ October 7, 2004, 19:37) QUOTE (Chazzy @ October 7, 2004, 11:45)Could you get into a dating or serious relationship with an exotic dancer, or porn star ? Would you be able to get past your like jealousy ? Would you be able to tell your friends, family, co-workers about your Love's career ?
Everyone knows that I am a nude dancer. My guy has no problem with it, he thinks it's cool, sexy and erotic. and yes, he does brag and his family does not mind.
He knows that I'm coming home to him and no one else, and we do have lots of fun in our sex life!
As far as a porn star...well, I don't think I could and I don't think he could either.
There are always thoughts of watching one or the other gettin it on with someone else. Those are very erotic thoughts.
We never mind being watched, and we have been. I know about his sex life before me and he knows about mine before him and we're cool with that.
And with the two of us, when we're out partying and having a good time, we are always open to new possibilities and fun.
See Dancers are cool!
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| October 8, 2004, 04:27 |
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I second that ^
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| October 8, 2004, 05:06 |
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pepper
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daytona, Florida, US
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And so are you guys D and HH !!! OH and BCB, Bear!!!
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| October 8, 2004, 05:46 |
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Wouldn't think for a minute about dating an exotic dancer, male or femeale. I might date a porn star once or twice, but I can't imagine the long term relationship working -----
Me: Hi dear, how was your day/
Him: Rough, had to nail Briana Banks three times, then they made this new actress give me head for two hours and then I had to have anal with Briana again.
Me: Thats nice dear, eat your peas.
see? it just might work?
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| October 8, 2004, 12:47 |
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QUOTE (kbateman @ October 8, 2004, 12:47)Wouldn't think for a minute about dating an exotic dancer, male or femeale. I might date a porn star once or twice, but I can't imagine the long term relationship working -----
Me: Hi dear, how was your day/
Him: Rough, had to nail Briana Banks three times, then they made this new actress give me head for two hours and then I had to have anal with Briana again.
Me: Thats nice dear, eat your peas.
see? it just might work?
You get an A+ that was funny 
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| October 8, 2004, 12:50 |
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Tease
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small town, Minnesota, US
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I use to dance...and my man had no problem with it...Obliviously cant dance no more...a lil too fat  But...I could get involved with someone who was a dancer....Porn star maybe...dunno till I try right 
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| October 8, 2004, 18:15 |
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backfromaustintx
66 / male
Burlington, Ontario, Canada
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The problem for me dating someone like that is the anti-male attitudes that are associated with sex workers like porn stars and strippers.
I wouldn't be interested in anyone who was used to using their sexuality to obtain money from men or power over men.
I guess I like the idea that what happens between us in the bedroom is the most rique' behaviour either of us engages in. We turn to each other for the fun and intimacy and it has to be exclusive. Otherwise, its just body grinding sex, isn't it?
And if its not something special just between the two of us, then what's the difference if I look to other attractive females ?
Physical intimacy is the glue that holds men and women together, through good times and bad. And, for many (most?) men, it is the ONLY way deep emotional bonding is achieved.
In my prior marriage, I just didn't WANT to make love with my wife, I NEEDED to. I could masterbate all I wanted, and it would help physically. But only making love satisfied that emotional need.
I know that all we hear today is that men are only interested in animalistic sex. We only want to find some place warm and wet to place our dicks until we climax. And we don't give a crap about morality, our partner, or if we hurt someone. IE Men Are Pigs.
I know that, for me, that isn't true. And sex provides the only way to feel really close and emotional with my mate.
So, how can that be special if my partner is providing some part of that of that to others?
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| October 10, 2004, 08:48 |
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snoopysi
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Griffith, New South Wales, Australia
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Well, Yeah...Dancer, wouldn't b a problem. Pornstar....could b a problem but it would b a hell of a sex life tryin 
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| October 11, 2004, 09:55 |
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bobcat65
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Eagle River, Alaska, US
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I'd have no probalem with either of them, but I might take a while for my family to accept the fact.
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| October 11, 2004, 22:50 |
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