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We are curious beings aren't we?
Do we all, somewhere deep within us, have a natural curiosity that could be defined as "bi-curious"? Is is perfectly normal for a macho hetero to maybe wander into a gay or bi porn site, just to have a peek? Does a heteros curiosity make them less hetero?
Is it easier for women to have bi-sexual experiences? Does this come from centuries of lesbian love being the fantasy of men, and women feeling a need to provide men with a fulfillment of their manly needs?
Are hetero men able to be comfortable in the casual presence of gay or bi men, without worry that it may bring their own sexuality into question?
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| July 3, 2006, 12:12 |
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lizonya
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
i think it is sexy for either a man or a woman to be so comfortable with who they are that they don't knock trying new and unusual things. it is human nature to question and be curious. there is nothing wrong with that, even though it is preceived as taboo in the bible. it's all in how it is interpretted. just my belief. i am a very spiritual person, as well as very sensual & sexual. open to a lot of things and so is bf.  3some .gif">  
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| July 3, 2006, 13:05 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
Not sure Chazzy, but inquiring minds do like to know. 
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| July 3, 2006, 20:35 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
Where the hell is Kb...she needs to get in here...
  
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| July 3, 2006, 21:23 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
QUOTE (Chazzy @ July 3, 2006, 12:12)
Are hetero men able to be comfortable in the casual presence of gay or bi men, without worry that it may bring their own sexuality into question?
I have a very good friend who is gay , we go out pretty often and I enjoy his company very much. However, I have never felt what you describe, I don't think that the fact of him being gay makes me less "male"... To be honest, homosexuality has never crossed my mind, I was never curious to find out how it feels but I don't mind hanging around with gay people. It's everyone's choice to do whatever they want in their love life, as long as they don't offend me.
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| July 4, 2006, 03:22 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
I've always felt that being bi gives me options. I like options.
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| July 4, 2006, 13:18 |
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lizonya
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Re: Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
QUOTE (jcpunny @ July 4, 2006, 13:18)I've always felt that being bi gives me options. I like options.
what a concept! good answer
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| July 4, 2006, 22:28 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
I can not speak for everyone, but I have found the following to be somewhat true.
A large number of young women and men (under 20) are bisexual - I think this is because the norms have changed and the raging hormones of youth require sexual contact. Few will continue with bisexual relations once reaching their majority.
A fair number of 30-50 is men are 'bi-curious'. They have had fairly normal sex lives, may be married, but still wonder "What if". Few of them will actually seek out a bisexual experience, but the internet allows them to learn the basics.
A fair number of middle aged women feel the same as the men, but are slightly more likely than the men to find and try to have homosexual sex, although again few will form lasting relationships.
Another group - those who consider homosexual contact to be 'humiliating' but seek the humiliation. Men who want to suck a dick, women who want a lesbian to 'take' them and such. Some will try their fantasy and others will not. The internet abounds with this group.
Then there is the other - those who may actually have homosexual tendencies and be able to form homosexual/bisexual relationships, based on something other than sexual contact. These are rarer than those who seek 'the forbidden fruit' of a homosexual liason - but these are the only ones true homosexuals are usually interested in.
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| July 5, 2006, 10:26 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
Yes I think for some males yes it does bring into that into question.. Now should it? no . Not unless you think you want to be a part of that or not .. It's not like they are going to trick you and boom your Bi ... It don't work that way , But when hanging with Macho males if you did have feeling like that you are more likly not to say anything when the gay jokes start ...
Now Yes I feel we are curious being's and I feel more men have these feeling then let on , most don't share. and the internet allows for them to keep these hidden inside and have a hidden outlet to look , but probably never act upon those feeling .
I feel that it is ok for women to be Bi because yes men have pictured two women together as a fanitise . so that has become normal for two girls to kiss and you'll see it out at clubs and events and no one thinks twice . But for two males to do such a thing in a non open event . is not . I think women make men feel like we have to be manly men , and I've had a few girl friend uncomfortable with the issue of men being with men .Cause they thought it made men seem less a man , and that's cause some women want to be cared away by thier big strong men to a life of being taken care of . And for some males being courious of the same sex questions those beliefs .
Ok well just my thought's ...
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| July 18, 2006, 11:34 |
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funlovingpair
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Re: Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
QUOTE (PeterPan73 @ July 4, 2006, 03:22) QUOTE (Chazzy @ July 3, 2006, 12:12)
Are hetero men able to be comfortable in the casual presence of gay or bi men, without worry that it may bring their own sexuality into question?
I have a very good friend who is gay , we go out pretty often and I enjoy his company very much. However, I have never felt what you describe, I don't think that the fact of him being gay makes me less "male"... To be honest, homosexuality has never crossed my mind, I was never curious to find out how it feels but I don't mind hanging around with gay people. It's everyone's choice to do whatever they want in their love life, as long as they don't offend me.
I'm in total agreement with you on this one. I also have bi and gay friends, both men and women, that I work with. There is no feeling of being less manly when I around them. They also know that I don't go that way, and they never push it, as where I work, the testosterone is rampant, and there is no pushing period.
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| July 18, 2006, 12:10 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
There is nothing wrong with broadening and opening up your sexuality , it's all up to the individual.
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| July 18, 2006, 12:18 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
QUOTE (Chazzy @ July 3, 2006, 12:12)Do we all, somewhere deep within us, have a natural curiosity that could be defined as "bi-curious"? Is is perfectly normal for a macho hetero to maybe wander into a gay or bi porn site, just to have a peek? Does a heteros curiosity make them less hetero?
Is it easier for women to have bi-sexual experiences? Does this come from centuries of lesbian love being the fantasy of men, and women feeling a need to provide men with a fulfillment of their manly needs?
Are hetero men able to be comfortable in the casual presence of gay or bi men, without worry that it may bring their own sexuality into question?
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| July 21, 2006, 03:43 |
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Re: Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
QUOTE (andre21 @ July 21, 2006, 03:43) QUOTE (Chazzy @ July 3, 2006, 12:12)Do we all, somewhere deep within us, have a natural curiosity that could be defined as "bi-curious"? Is is perfectly normal for a macho hetero to maybe wander into a gay or bi porn site, just to have a peek? Does a heteros curiosity make them less hetero?
Is it easier for women to have bi-sexual experiences? Does this come from centuries of lesbian love being the fantasy of men, and women feeling a need to provide men with a fulfillment of their manly needs?
Are hetero men able to be comfortable in the casual presence of gay or bi men, without worry that it may bring their own sexuality into question?
i think if u r curious about something you need to try to find out what the deal is.i don t like men but i like to give a blow job once in a while.i love the cock,like to see one erected but i m not gay ,i much prefer women but i don t mind sucking a dick
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| July 21, 2006, 03:46 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
I think at least 90% have had thoughts about it. I think bi males make the best lovers. Just for the fact they are willing to try new things, and they seem to really wish to please others, and not just them selves. That has been my experience. As for bi males being less of a man. Not getting into my man's history. But I know where he's been, and the things he has done. Based on that alone, I have never meet a man more courageous then him. He has received medals from the federal government, and awards from a state governor. All for bravery, a total of three in all. Not all for the same action, or while in the same organization. My father is no wimp, by no means, and he describes my man as a mans man.
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| July 21, 2006, 12:23 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
OK I have to correct my last post ..
Since it seems I was miss understood . I think it is normal for people to be curious, But in the past I have run into women who do feel it is OK for them , the ladies . But not for men ..
Have any of you ladies ever watched your man with another man . if so did it bring this into question , because yes it has happen to me . After being with another man with a women I was with . she said she couldn't look at me the same way. and it cost us our relationship . Not that , that is the issue here . I was just adding to what I have said in the past . it all depends on the people you are with .. I think too many people worry about what the world will think and hide away all elements that are taboo .
More people need to be open to try new things even if it is just trying it in a new spot of your house ..
Open your mind and your ass will follow ....
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| July 27, 2006, 11:54 |
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Re: Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
QUOTE (lizonya @ July 3, 2006, 13:05)i think it is sexy for either a man or a woman to be so comfortable with who they are that they don't knock trying new and unusual things. it is human nature to question and be curious. there is nothing wrong with that, even though it is preceived as taboo in the bible. it's all in how it is interpretted. just my belief. i am a very spiritual person, as well as very sensual & sexual. open to a lot of things and so is bf. 3some .gif">
I am also very spiritual as well as sensual and sexual, If the situation ever came and the surroundings and mood were right and I felt comfortable with whom I was with I would have no trouble testing the waters
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| September 20, 2006, 16:39 |
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lizonya
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
good answer hothands!
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| September 22, 2006, 14:03 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
QUOTE (Chazzy @ July 3, 2006, 12:12)Do we all, somewhere deep within us, have a natural curiosity that could be defined as "bi-curious"? Is is perfectly normal for a macho hetero to maybe wander into a gay or bi porn site, just to have a peek? Does a heteros curiosity make them less hetero?
Is it easier for women to have bi-sexual experiences? Does this come from centuries of lesbian love being the fantasy of men, and women feeling a need to provide men with a fulfillment of their manly needs?
Are hetero men able to be comfortable in the casual presence of gay or bi men, without worry that it may bring their own sexuality into question?
Well I never thought myself to be bi I still don't but there i struth in your post. I sent bi male site and it does turn me on. I dint know wheter it is because of the woman enjoying two dicks but it does turn me on. altough mmm would be strange of having an other man touching me and jerking me . but I am becomming quit curiuos about that thought. small steps
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| September 25, 2006, 06:15 |
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baudy305
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| September 25, 2006, 09:16 |
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
Yes I think we are curious at heart. I'm 56, and been marrried for about 29 years and have lately got a fascination with male genitalia. It all started when I went for prostate examination. When the Doc felt me inside, it felt good. I has embarassed by these feelings but later became interested in looking at men. I've c2c with a couple of guys since then and enjoyed the experience.. Are there others with similar experiences?
Col
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| September 29, 2006, 00:32 |
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evilscottsman
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Re: We are curious beings aren't we?
QUOTE (Chazzy @ July 3, 2006, 12:12)
Are hetero men able to be comfortable in the casual presence of gay or bi men, without worry that it may bring their own sexuality into question?
The result of a long night with my books, i thought i should ressurect this thread. Chazzy I think this archaic question is an excellent one. I myself take the view the greeks and romans seemed to have had, I have an overall appreciation for the beauty and sexuality of the human body, be it male or female. I dont think it makes someone gay and not even bi just to be curious. It is def in our nature to be curious. I think it is natural for us to explore all pleasures, not taboo.
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