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azcapt
79 / male
phoenix, Arizona, US
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If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
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| June 20, 2006, 10:04 |
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
If for instance someone was, I'd still wait. That's not the overall thing to keep a relationship going so I would not hold that against them just because they weren't into such a thing, etc.
Although, it would maybe benefit for both if they were both into it that way you know one or the other wouldn't be disappointed.
Who knows, in some cases opposite attracts. 
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| June 20, 2006, 22:10 |
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funlovingpair
58 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
If that is your sole base for the relationship, it's not a good one. If your partner just doesn't like it, then so be it, and maybe over time they start out slow with it, then when they find out it's not all bad, that's a bonus. I will never force anything on to some one that they don't want to do. It's much better to have a wanting and willing partner, than one that's going start a argument over sex durning sex. 
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| June 21, 2006, 11:50 |
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Gideon797
70 / male
Jersey City, New Jersey, US
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
Not if I really care about her,there are other ways to git off
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| July 8, 2006, 20:18 |
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mystic1
70 / male
Vermillion, South Dakota, US
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
if my lady doesnt like giving oral sex but it would matter if she did not like me giving her oral sex . to me it is the ultimate ...
and that is the rest of the story.....
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| August 4, 2006, 21:49 |
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mystic1
70 / male
Vermillion, South Dakota, US
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Re: Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
QUOTE (mystic1 @ August 4, 2006, 21:49)if my lady doesnt like giving oral sex that would be ok with me but it would matter if she did not like me giving her oral sex . to me it is the ultimate ...
and that is the rest of the story.....
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| August 4, 2006, 21:50 |
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
I love my wife very much, and if she decided tonight that she did not want to give me oral anymore, I would respect her, and never go some where else for it. But however, just because she wants to stop does not mean that I have to stop, so spread wide honey here I come again.
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| November 25, 2006, 22:02 |
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
i think that if she gets it  , she should give it  ....but it does not mean that it has to be done every time... 
this played a very small part in the reasons why i am now divorced...very very very small part...it was one of the things we seemed to argue about...she demanded it of me, yet i couldn't even ask for it with out getting my head (the other one...) bit off!!!
like i said, you should give, if you get (at least part of the time!!)
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| December 25, 2006, 19:55 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
What excites me, is what excites them.....So I guess it would be safe to say that it wouldn't matter to me at all!
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| December 27, 2006, 09:42 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
Show me a man who would shake his head at the chance of a good 'nosh'?..... 
Yes, personally i think it would matter. Oral is to be shared and enjoyed....
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| December 27, 2006, 14:32 |
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Re: Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
QUOTE (Liberalwife @ December 27, 2006, 14:32)
i was hoping you'd say that!!
im up for a good "nosh"....and yes sharing is a most noble quality!!
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| December 27, 2006, 14:36 |
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
My husband just does not like to give oral , my boyfriend before him just loved it, lived for it, and was so damn good at it...yes, I do miss getting oral, but I can manage without it.
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| January 1, 2007, 01:13 |
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
These are some cool questions! Most of the parnters i have had have been into oral sex .. but, if the person i'm married to wasn't and i am.. hmm.. I suppose it really woudn't matter all that much. I'd still stay with her, cause at that point the love she plans on givin me for the rest of our lives, is far more important then if she ever had her lips around my dick for 5 minutes.
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| March 5, 2007, 18:37 |
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lot2luv41965
58 / female
west of Atlanta, Georgia, US
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
Most definitely. Most guys barely give a good licking. They are too anxious to do the deed vice getting me very hot. Those who take the time soon realize that I'm soooo much better and fun in bed!
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| March 7, 2007, 11:25 |
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
My wife and I both practised oral early during our marriage but I did her orally much more often than she did me. When she did do me orally it was just the tip of my cock that she would put in her mouth. If any more was to go in she would gag. After a few years she just stopped doing it. One night I decided to show her how to do it by going down on myself and she was very offended and angry. She said that I should be happy with the way she brings me to orgasm. I tried to tell her that she does not please me orally and that I was just trying to demostrate to her how to do it. After that I got no more oral from her but she expected me to eat her out. Several years after our last child the sex became less and less frequent and for the last several years very infrequent.
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| March 7, 2007, 16:14 |
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cobaltheat
54 / male
Leicester, England, UK
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
Oral is one of the cornerstones of any relationship.
Giving / recieving good oral is an art and and a skill that should not be taken for granted.
However, it is noticeable how different partners like or dont like to give / recieve.
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| April 20, 2007, 18:17 |
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Re: If you are into oral sex and your partner is not would it matter to you?
I like oral first licking,then sucking. Likewise I want to do licking, sucking, putting my tongue into pussy just what a dick does in sex
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| November 2, 2007, 10:45 |
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