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tomboy6978
45 / male
Florissant, Missouri, US
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Where am i headed
the past few years have not been so kind but yet dealt me with some kind of lasting pain that keeps on fading in and out like a broken record to see people i cared about die or move away in some point of my life....and as relationships go not the greatest and deffintely not what i expected so where does the line draw on a cheating lying partner who goes behind my back but yet what is love to people who could do such a thing...so i ask myself where is the girl for me do i not deserve love and happiness along where did the job go that was supposed to give me my finicial security and what more and so i catch myself and ask where am i headed life that threw me a curve sure taught me alot but what can we do wait it out or do we just keep suffering is another reason why i catch myself am i in some nightmare that i can not wake up from...........
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| May 8, 2006, 21:41 |
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Re: Where am i headed
im not sure if ur serious, but if u r,,,,,what doesnt kill u , will make u stronger,,,,thats not a cliche', its real,,,,hang in there and go after good things that will benefit ur life,,,,try to make wise choices ,, and above all else ask for help.....many people have been where u r!!,,,,experience sometimes helps to bring clarity!,,,,and a prayer every now and again never hurt!,,,,,,,just my 2 cents???????????
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| May 9, 2006, 00:09 |
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Re: Where am i headed
ripp said it all... I'd like to add that you should always try to take good care of yourself no matter what. Even when you think you're falling apart try to keep it together and don't let silly thoughts cross your mind. 
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| May 9, 2006, 02:25 |
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Re: Where am i headed
I think she may be way too immature for you, but when something was once so good, it's just hard to let go.
I think it may be the hardest thing for anyone to learn to do, whether someone we love dies, moves away, or just changes on us, we can't help but to look back and wonder if we should have done something differently, said something, or maybe not have said or done something, it's hard to just let go of it. Experience is how we learn, and our history of bad things can what makes us better people.
Don't live in the past with regrets, move on cuz your future is waiting for ya!
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| May 9, 2006, 08:07 |
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tomboy6978
45 / male
Florissant, Missouri, US
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Re: Where am i headed
thanks for the advice im glad to have people like yall here to help me out no wonder why i keep coming here 
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| May 9, 2006, 12:52 |
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tomboy6978
45 / male
Florissant, Missouri, US
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Re: Where am i headed
maybe i just needed a hug or something last night but as you can tell i been thru some rough times but i think that makes me a much stronger and better person for going thru alll this at such a early age just hopes things get better soon and i must admit thanks for being here for me all my web naughty friends
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| May 9, 2006, 13:34 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Where am i headed
All very heartfelt advice for you tomboy!......We do become who we are from the things that happen in our past....However its the ones that take all experiences and learn from them!......Life will never be easy!....And when it was, we were way to young to appreciate it!......You have to learn to take the good with the bad......Life would be too boring if we all had perfect lives!.....The harder the life, the smarter we become!.. 
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| May 9, 2006, 15:00 |
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tomboy6978
45 / male
Florissant, Missouri, US
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Re: Where am i headed
i agree with you nykitten and thanks for the extra advice well said
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| May 9, 2006, 17:33 |
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Re: Re: Where am i headed
QUOTE (tomboy6978 @ May 9, 2006, 13:34)maybe i just needed a hug or something last night but as you can tell i been thru some rough times but i think that makes me a much stronger and better person for going thru alll this at such a early age just hopes things get better soon and i must admit thanks for being here for me all my web naughty friends
Oh baby just say so..
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| May 9, 2006, 22:44 |
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tomboy6978
45 / male
Florissant, Missouri, US
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Re: Re: Re: Where am i headed
QUOTE (Emka @ May 9, 2006, 22:44)
i better bring the flowers after those kisses thanks Emka   
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| May 9, 2006, 22:46 |
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tomboy6978
45 / male
Florissant, Missouri, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Where am i headed
QUOTE (tomboy6978 @ May 9, 2006, 22:46)
just hopes i can return the favor for being here for me as i can see a peace lilly in the valley that lets the light shine down where happiness only knows the true color of our lives but to share the best things for the ones we care about is my way of saying thanks
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| May 10, 2006, 13:04 |
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tomboy6978
45 / male
Florissant, Missouri, US
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Re: Where am i headed
if i offended anybody here did not mean to and for some reason i seem to let you all down as much as i really been working hard to change my life for the better i always seem to mess something good up so i am apologizing for those i may have offended in any way....................well its like they say some days are better than other days
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| May 11, 2006, 20:58 |
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just4urplsur
57 / male
platte city, Missouri, US
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Re: Where am i headed
I wouldn't worry about offending anyone. If you truely offended anyone they would let you know. so dont be sorry about having a bad day or anything 
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| May 11, 2006, 21:12 |
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Re: Where am i headed
Hey TomBoy,
ripp put it pretty simple.
I can only add keep ur chin up and keep chuggin forward.
Your attitude forms the framework to how u live ur life.
Maintain a positive attitude each and every day, NO MATTER WHAT.
we all experiece ups and downs in life.
Also, be involved and take action.
it may be a cliche, but u get out what u put in.
simple concept. but its true.
evaluate and assess who u are, who and what ur partner is to u...sometimes there just isn't a fit.
that's okay..
we live, we learn and we move on.
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| May 12, 2006, 07:37 |
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