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looking4fun43609
43 / couple
toledo, Ohio, US
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threesomes
Is it right to have a three some for some one when ur heart is not into it, your really doing it so he can say he did it and he really wants it? and what are the chances of them leaving you after it happens?
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| April 22, 2006, 20:43 |
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Re: threesomes
QUOTE (looking4fun43609 @ April 22, 2006, 20:43)Is it right to have a three some for some one when ur heart is not into it, your really doing it so he can say he did it and he really wants it? and what are the chances of them leaving you after it happens?
 3some .gif"> ? Well with my expieriance's......do it if YOU want to,if you just do it for him,you will feel resentment sooner or later,and the chances of them leaving you depends on how sucure your relationship is...But thats just my 2cents!!! 
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| April 22, 2006, 20:54 |
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Re: threesomes
You'll get the best advice here , just sift through it all ,and make your own decision...   
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| April 22, 2006, 21:29 |
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lizonya
63 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: threesomes
You need to really be secure in your relationship first. Ask yourself, 'what is he willing to do for ME ?' - and then tell Him what YOU want!!! 
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| April 23, 2006, 02:42 |
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looking4fun43609
43 / couple
toledo, Ohio, US
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Re: threesomes
thanx for all tbe imput I will take it all in thnx
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| April 23, 2006, 14:31 |
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Re: threesomes
Honestly, if your heart is not into it - I am afraid YOU are going to feel resentment in the long run. If you are not comfortable with something DONT do it. Maybe you will change your mind later, but for now - I would not go there.
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| April 23, 2006, 17:40 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: threesomes
You know your hubby isn't going to be happy with these answers, however, I would say Absolutely Not! There is no kind of relationship out there that can withstand such a challenge!......If your heart is not into it, than you will NEVER be happy with your decision!.....
You really need to talk to your hubby and let him know your concerns......If he truly loves you, he will respect how you feel!....
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| April 23, 2006, 18:31 |
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lizonya
63 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: Re: threesomes
QUOTE (nykitten @ April 23, 2006, 18:31)You know your hubby isn't going to be happy with these answers, however, I would say Absolutely Not! There is no kind of relationship out there that can withstand such a challenge!......If your heart is not into it, than you will NEVER be happy with your decision!.....
You really need to talk to your hubby and let him know your concerns......If he truly loves you, he will respect how you feel!....
amen to that, sister!
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| April 23, 2006, 19:22 |
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funlovingpair
58 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: threesomes
Kitten is right, Ma and I have had a 3-way. I really think she did it for me, but all the while she did enjoy it. Our relationship has gotten even stronger, but the 3rd gal has not talked to us in about 2 years. But I always make sure that MA really wants to do something, I do not and will not make her do anything that she does not feel comfortable with, if would say NO then it's NO. Plain and simple.
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| April 25, 2006, 12:17 |
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2hornythreesome
54 / couple
melbourne, Victoria, Australia
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Re: Re: threesomes
QUOTE (k7777b @ April 22, 2006, 20:54) QUOTE (looking4fun43609 @ April 22, 2006, 20:43)Is it right to have a three some for some one when ur heart is not into it, your really doing it so he can say he did it and he really wants it? and what are the chances of them leaving you after it happens? 3some .gif"> ? Well with my expieriance's......do it if YOU want to,if you just do it for him,you will feel resentment sooner or later,and the chances of them leaving you depends on how sucure your relationship is...But thats just my 2cents!!!
and agood 2cents spent take your time girl do it for the right reasons not his 
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| May 26, 2006, 03:59 |
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Re: threesomes
It's pretty simple really, swinging and/or bringing a third person into your bed requires a good healthy strong and secure relationship....if you don't have that going on, then don't do it...you're just begging for complications, regrets, and bad, bad feelings.
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