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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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What is a fetish?
Some people aren't sure if they even have a fetish while others think that their fetishes are abnormal. So what is a fetish? If you have a fetish, you are obsessively fixated on either an object or a body part, or both.
You need that specific something for sexual gratification. When you masturbate, you have to either fantasize about that object or have that object with you. Even if you have sex with a partner, you still need to fantasize about that object or have it present.
For instance, if you're attracted to a brunette, that's one thing, but if you are unable to get aroused unless you're with a brunette, then you likely have a fetish.
People can turn anything into a fetish. There are different degrees of fetishism: from mild to extreme. 
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| April 4, 2006, 14:00 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: What is a fetish?
The top ten fetishes are....
1. Stomachs
2. Body piercing
3. Leather, rubber, vinyl, latex
4. Domination/submission
5. Feet/hands
6. Fingernails/lipstick
7. Braids, ponytails, pigtails
8. Water
Many variants of water were popular with both men and women. Many women declared that they enjoyed sex best when they could hear or be in running water. Whether it be rain, the shower or even an opened faucet -- so long as they heard water of some sort.
9. Golden showers
I know this one doesn't sound very inviting, but it was a popular one. Some guys love to watch a woman urinate on them as a method of foreplay. Other guys find it necessary to relieve themselves on women before they can actually get down to business
10. Voyeurism/exhibitionism
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| April 4, 2006, 14:08 |
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funlovingpair
58 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: What is a fetish?
My fetish is women, can't be without them.  
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