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willowman7
61 / male
san diego, California, US
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Anal sex the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...please
So my long term partner and I have mutually agreed to try different things to spice up our sex lives.
One thing that came up ! very quickly was Anal sex , she says she is willing to indulge me in this.
Now we have in the distant past tried it ( every time we were both drunk as skunks) and my hazy recollection was that I for one enjoyed it but she would not remember her feelings.
I love her to bits and if anything is an instant dickdrooper is the thought that I am hurting her or she is doing something that she derives no pleasure from.
So my questions , in a long winded way and really to the lovely ladies only is......can Anal sex rally be enjoyable for a woman, or is it just a male fantasy that women go along with for the sake of their man ??
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| June 5, 2013, 22:17 |
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JLee3D
57 / female
Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Anal sex the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...please
IMO it absolutely CAN be enjoyable. the fact that this is a long time partner is good. my suggestion is discuss it - what are both of your inhibitions, turnoffs etc - and quite simply avoid them. Since this is fairly new for you both I would strongly recommend lube and listen to her, let her drive (so to speak) this is not a time and place for rammin & jammin.
good luck & enjoy! 
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| June 6, 2013, 00:03 |
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JLee3D
57 / female
Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Anal sex the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...please
there is a lengthy discussion about this under this same section - check it out
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| June 6, 2013, 00:19 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Anal sex the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...please
Ditto to what JLee3D said. Most import part is she be relaxed!.Make sure she comes a few times first. That always helps every muscle in my body relax.Also remember that there is no real natural lube the way there is when you are doing a vaginal insertion, this is very different so make sure to use plenty of lube. SLOW is absolutely key. Communication is a must. Make sure you pay attention to her body language. I know most times I tend to push against something if I want it deeper. If she is pulling away a bit it might be hurting her.
She might be nervous at first but once she gets past a certain point it feels really good (If she is relaxed).Try using a finger while you are doing other things with her to get her used to the sensation and stretch her a little. The other part is to be careful . If you are going to be playing with this there is a chance of infection so be aware of the do's and don'ts. You might want to read a bit online about them. The most important thing is you should not insert in her ass then in her pussy without washing first. She could get a nasty infection. I have heard of some women that have said they would never have anal sex again after that. That would be a shame.It is not for everyone but if you take the time to learn what she likes and get her to the right place in her head, you might find that she enjoys it very much. Try vibrators as well they feel amazing in your ass!
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| June 6, 2013, 05:42 |
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willowman7
61 / male
san diego, California, US
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Re: Anal sex the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...please
thank you so much for your reply I will take your advice fully wish me luck
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| June 6, 2013, 07:59 |
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willowman7
61 / male
san diego, California, US
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Re: Anal sex the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...please
thanks for the advice , I will follow it carefully
Holding back my excitement is going to be the hardest thing....
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| June 6, 2013, 08:01 |
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willowman7
61 / male
san diego, California, US
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Re: Re: Anal sex the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...please
QUOTE (willowman7 @ June 6, 2013, 08:01)thanks for the advice , I will follow it carefully
Holding back my excitement is going to be the hardest thing....
Sorry we could not talk jlee3d
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| June 7, 2013, 00:03 |
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