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WildFro
34 / male
Miami, Florida, US
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How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
I've yet to have gotten into a group sex of any size. Threesome being the smallest, I've had worries if I would cum too soon. Usually, I tend to do a lot of foreplay and I DO last longer each time I sleep with a woman but because it's hotter in group, I feel as if I am going to pre-ejaculate.
How do you control yourself entirely on your first time?
My first time was in Colombia with a girl and I lasted 15 minutes without foreplay. I was 14 at the time and I NEVER asked if she had a orgasm which I regrettably wonder to this day. 
So I want my 'next' 'first time' to be perfect. How do you guys last or 'control' yourselves in situations where you're that aroused? I've tried to hold it in (practicing) but is there more to it?
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| February 27, 2013, 20:27 |
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ashkats
64 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
think the song says, relax dont do it... thke a break i find i cant cum after that for a day or two at my age....
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| March 3, 2013, 03:10 |
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Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
Knock the first one out before time. Common practice among men to jack off prior to a big date to slow themselves down.
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| March 3, 2013, 13:15 |
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sybianwatcher1
48 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
Chazzy...stop giving away all of our secrets...
If your uncircumcised, it may help to shorten the stroke for say 5 or 6 thrusts to calm down the impending ending. It's a common thing to get overzelous to soon , when you feel the build up back off for just a few seconds, after awhile you'll be able to control it very well... you may find this helps.
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| March 3, 2013, 17:05 |
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Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
Try my trick. Get the image in your head of Janet Reno making out with Rosie O'Donnell. It might make you go totally limp, but at least you wont cum.
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| March 3, 2013, 17:56 |
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sybianwatcher1
48 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ March 3, 2013, 17:56)Try my trick. Get the image in your head of Janet Reno making out with Rosie O'Donnell. It might make you go totally limp, but at least you wont cum.
I tried that...instant soft on.
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| March 3, 2013, 20:22 |
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Re: Re: Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ March 3, 2013, 20:22) QUOTE (freensleazy @ March 3, 2013, 17:56)Try my trick. Get the image in your head of Janet Reno making out with Rosie O'Donnell. It might make you go totally limp, but at least you wont cum.
I tried that...instant soft on.
Twin sons of a different Mother
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| March 4, 2013, 02:22 |
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sybianwatcher1
48 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Re: Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ March 4, 2013, 02:22) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ March 3, 2013, 20:22) QUOTE (freensleazy @ March 3, 2013, 17:56)Try my trick. Get the image in your head of Janet Reno making out with Rosie O'Donnell. It might make you go totally limp, but at least you wont cum.
I tried that...instant soft on.
Twin sons of a different Mother
Yup....I just don't understand why I have to be the one with the freakish big feet, and the funny accent.
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| March 4, 2013, 02:34 |
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Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
Youre the rugged cowboy and I'm the pretty city boy. Explain that
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| March 4, 2013, 03:53 |
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Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
someone should slap both your parents upside the head.... 
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| March 4, 2013, 04:19 |
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sybianwatcher1
48 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ March 4, 2013, 03:53)Youre the rugged cowboy and I'm the pretty city boy. Explain that
I wear pointie boots..do you really think I'm qualified to explain anything.?
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| March 4, 2013, 06:24 |
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Re: Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ March 4, 2013, 04:19)someone should slap both your parents upside the head....
Seriously. The poor dude that asked the question just has to think of all this nonsense we wrote when he thinks he's gonna pop
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| March 4, 2013, 13:06 |
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Re: Re: Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ March 4, 2013, 13:06) QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ March 4, 2013, 04:19)someone should slap both your parents upside the head....
Seriously. The poor dude that asked the question just has to think of all this nonsense we wrote when he thinks he's gonna pop
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| March 4, 2013, 20:15 |
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WildFro
34 / male
Miami, Florida, US
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Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
I've been practicing with your advice and yes, I go limp for a few seconds but it starts over the 'cycle' before release so it helped thanks!
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| March 5, 2013, 00:54 |
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sybianwatcher1
48 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
QUOTE (WildFro @ March 5, 2013, 00:54)I've been practicing with your advice and yes, I go limp for a few seconds but it starts over the 'cycle' before release so it helped thanks!
Sooo, you took our advice and it... WORKED ? I think that may be a first Free.!
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| March 5, 2013, 01:29 |
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Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
Thats our calling Syb. Non Sex Therapists!
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| March 5, 2013, 02:07 |
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Re: Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ March 5, 2013, 02:07)Thats our calling Syb. Non Sex Therapists!
It's a gift.
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| March 5, 2013, 02:44 |
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sybianwatcher1
48 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: How to 'control' myself from cumming too soon in group sex?
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