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Newstudent
24 / female
Englewood, Florida, US
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I want to be shared!
I want my husband to share me with other men. And women. And... Fuck it, everyone!
Any thoughts on how I can discreetly put the idea in his head so he thinks HE thought of it?  3some .gif"> 
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| February 8, 2012, 18:22 |
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BigDaddyJ
33 / male
Springfield, Massachusetts, US
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Re: I want to be shared!
I'm in! 3some .gif">   
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| February 8, 2012, 20:21 |
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hornybastd32
30 / male
Niskayuna, New York, US
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Re: I want to be shared!
Do you ever watch porn together? If so, try working some threesome scenes into what you watch together and afterward talk about how hot it was to see two guys having a girl or two girls with a guy, whatever. That'll get the idea in his head. Whether that will make him want to share you or not I can't say. Willingness to share a partner is going to be different from one person to the next. Also, if you don't watch porn together... start!
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| February 9, 2012, 06:44 |
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newbie1011
50 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: I want to be shared!
When ever you are thinking of bringing anyone onto your relationship remember it can't be undone.First I would say you must have a strong relationship to start with, as well as ego to do it.Make sure you understand where each persons comfort levels are. Discuss all your do's and don'ts. I also feel very few people can handle it on a regular basis if at all.Most deal with it better as a bonus on occasion. Most need to have one on one time in their relationship as well.
That being said , maybe you can start it by talking about fantasy's. Sorry but if you have to "trick him " into thinking it was his idea or anything else that isn't straight forward I think it says that maybe he or you would not be comfortable, therefore maybe you shouldn't do it, at least at this point in the relationship.If you are worried about his ego being an issue over who's idea it was then trust me he doesn't have a strong enough ego for this type of relationship.Good luck.
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| February 9, 2012, 11:35 |
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Kinkitupanotch
42 / male
Fraser Valley, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: I want to be shared!
I agree with newbie1011. Communication and trust is the key, as I have shared a couple girlfriends with others in the past, it is about communication, start with the fantasy as newbie mentioned and be honest, if it is something he is interested in, I am sure you will both be rewarded by the pleasure and your love should remain strong. But again I agree with newbie, I believe it should be an occasion pleasure, not ongoing as it may hurt your relationship. My 2 cents worth. 
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| February 10, 2012, 04:02 |
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perveman
47 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: I want to be shared!
Trust me, he's already thought of 2 ladies. That'd be easy, just ask.
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| February 10, 2012, 12:07 |
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perveman
47 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: I want to be shared!
Just re read ny reply. The men part of it will be the tough part. We men, are SO possesive. Good luck.
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| February 15, 2012, 13:51 |
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ashkats
52 / couple
spirit falls, Wisconsin, US
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Re: I want to be shared!
very much so some are then others would love to jump in the sack
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| February 16, 2012, 22:56 |
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