|
| AUTHOR |
MESSAGE |
|
Newstudent
36 / female
Englewood, Florida, US
|
I want to be shared!
I want my husband to share me with other men. And women. And... Fuck it, everyone!
Any thoughts on how I can discreetly put the idea in his head so he thinks HE thought of it?  3some .gif"> 
|
| February 8, 2012, 18:22 |
|
BigDaddyJ
45 / male
Springfield, Massachusetts, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
I'm in! 3some .gif">   
|
| February 8, 2012, 20:21 |
|
hornybastd32
42 / male
Niskayuna, New York, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
Do you ever watch porn together? If so, try working some threesome scenes into what you watch together and afterward talk about how hot it was to see two guys having a girl or two girls with a guy, whatever. That'll get the idea in his head. Whether that will make him want to share you or not I can't say. Willingness to share a partner is going to be different from one person to the next. Also, if you don't watch porn together... start!
|
| February 9, 2012, 06:44 |
|
newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
When ever you are thinking of bringing anyone onto your relationship remember it can't be undone.First I would say you must have a strong relationship to start with, as well as ego to do it.Make sure you understand where each persons comfort levels are. Discuss all your do's and don'ts. I also feel very few people can handle it on a regular basis if at all.Most deal with it better as a bonus on occasion. Most need to have one on one time in their relationship as well.
That being said , maybe you can start it by talking about fantasy's. Sorry but if you have to "trick him " into thinking it was his idea or anything else that isn't straight forward I think it says that maybe he or you would not be comfortable, therefore maybe you shouldn't do it, at least at this point in the relationship.If you are worried about his ego being an issue over who's idea it was then trust me he doesn't have a strong enough ego for this type of relationship.Good luck.
|
| February 9, 2012, 11:35 |
|
Kinkitupanotch
54 / male
Fraser Valley, British Columbia, Canada
|
Re: I want to be shared!
I agree with newbie1011. Communication and trust is the key, as I have shared a couple girlfriends with others in the past, it is about communication, start with the fantasy as newbie mentioned and be honest, if it is something he is interested in, I am sure you will both be rewarded by the pleasure and your love should remain strong. But again I agree with newbie, I believe it should be an occasion pleasure, not ongoing as it may hurt your relationship. My 2 cents worth. 
|
| February 10, 2012, 04:02 |
|
perveman
110 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
Trust me, he's already thought of 2 ladies. That'd be easy, just ask.
|
| February 10, 2012, 12:07 |
|
perveman
110 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
Just re read ny reply. The men part of it will be the tough part. We men, are SO possesive. Good luck.
|
| February 15, 2012, 13:51 |
|
ashkats
64 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
very much so some are then others would love to jump in the sack
|
| February 16, 2012, 22:56 |
|
hotandheavy11
45 / couple
sydney, New South Wales, Australia
|
Re: I want to be shared!
you must be able to seperate fantasy sex from everyday life suggest using different name with eachother when having fun and create a role for eachother start with other women and make sure you go wild he will follow suit once he is hooked to this try a couple then move on to men if you get hot so will he group sex is very addictive after a sexy enjoyable time and when alone you will fuck constantly often talking of hot sex you had or would like to have steer clear of sex with friends and keep it you his secret never make love to anyone but eachother when in role play it is fucking laugh discuss spoil eachother most men love sluts remind him your his get it right and youll be surrounded by cock and erotica whenmoment arises and it will be his suggestion
|
| July 22, 2012, 01:16 |
|
onehornee
63 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
|
Re: Re: I want to be shared!
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ February 9, 2012, 11:35)When ever you are thinking of bringing anyone onto your relationship remember it can't be undone.First I would say you must have a strong relationship to start with, as well as ego to do it.Make sure you understand where each persons comfort levels are. Discuss all your do's and don'ts. I also feel very few people can handle it on a regular basis if at all.Most deal with it better as a bonus on occasion. Most need to have one on one time in their relationship as well.
That being said , maybe you can start it by talking about fantasy's. Sorry but if you have to "trick him " into thinking it was his idea or anything else that isn't straight forward I think it says that maybe he or you would not be comfortable, therefore maybe you shouldn't do it, at least at this point in the relationship.If you are worried about his ego being an issue over who's idea it was then trust me he doesn't have a strong enough ego for this type of relationship.Good luck.
I have to agree with newbs as well,HAvinf my first wife bi,the share thing came up a few times,getting offers from my best friend to share his wife I was not ready for and turning them down really hurt there feelings,She was very pretty i just couldnt find it in myself to engage,so be prepared it may go great or get ugly..long as your up to dealing with the end result..its all good..As for my best friend,were still friends IT just really hurt them when I declined....
|
| July 22, 2012, 16:59 |
|
sprmshuter
50 / couple
Phoenix, Arizona, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
SURE I DO!! Talk him into bringing u out to Az. Have him drop u off at our house, tell him u and my wife r high school friends. Tell him to come pick u up in an hour, when he returns and sees u sitting on my wifes face and me ramming my COCK down ur throat, he'll want to jump in n my wifes pussy I guarantee it!!! And he wont care who's idea it was at that point!!!
|
| July 27, 2012, 16:53 |
|
tuffenuff
43 / male
fort belvoir, Virginia, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
best i can say is talk about it dosnt matter whos idea it is. me and my wife discussed the idea of an open marriage for almost a year before acting on it, now she does her thing and i do mine and our marriage has never been better
|
| July 29, 2012, 02:47 |
|
mtnwife
56 / couple
redding, California, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
I finally convinced my husband that it was "ok" to watch porn together (up bringing) saw one 2 women on 1 guys getting a BJ, and I said I'd bet you'd like that, he admitted he would but just when I GOT THE BALL ROLLING,(didnt mean to cap.) i brought it up, and he reversed his opinion!!!!!!!
|
| February 1, 2013, 08:40 |
|
mtnwife
56 / couple
redding, California, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
Hey I actually have a friend in MESA (my excuse to be there):hint at invite!  I know off topic
|
| February 1, 2013, 08:45 |
|
Ready2fuckurough
32 / male
Sparta, Tennessee, US
|
Re: I want to be shared!
Easy. first u need me. then u see how well u enjoy and then when ur callin me daddy u can jus blind fold and make him watch and while he is helpless u can take it from him too. idk what kinda guy wouldn't want to try
|
| November 1, 2013, 05:59 |
|
|
