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2forxxx3
59 / couple
Rockford, Illinois, US
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Experience with 2 men/1 woman threesome?
My wife and I want to have a man join us . If you were the other man and have done this before, can you provide your thoughts on it, your experience, and how it all went down? If you were the couple, please provide details on how you made it happen, your rules, and how it all went down. Thanks!
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| July 26, 2011, 02:48 |
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ashkats
64 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Experience with 2 men/1 woman threesome?
the lady ends up raw after awhile,and it starts off by happing and the right types for it and ya need a ice breaker
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| August 25, 2011, 17:22 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Experience with 2 men/1 woman threesome?
I have done many threesomes over the years and they have all been with two men and myself(A WOMAN). In my case it has always been the couple,being myself and the guy I was dating who set the primary rules. It is very important that you don't push either partner into this. If you do there will be resentment down the line and more than likely that will be the end of the relationship. You also can't do it to "improve" a troubled relationship. It will only make it worse. You have to have a clear understanding as to what the expectations are going into it. You also have to set the ground rules with everyone involved.I have found guys to be pretty easy going as to what happens and don't have many rules.The third person usually just goes with the flow in most cases.
You must also have a pretty strong ego to go into this. That goes for all involved . You can't turn back the clock. Once it's done you will remember it and if something goes badly, trust me it will effect the relationship. That being said it can be a great experience. I will tell you how it was done in my case , keeping in mind that you should do what works for you not me.
As I said it was always with a guy I was dating. The third person, in my case was always a guy that was a friend to both of us or at least one and I knew and felt comfortable with.My rules were VERY specific. For example: I never kiss anyone other than the guy I was dating. I never had anal sex with anyone other than who I was dating, and the other rule was when giving head only the guy I was dating came in my mouth.The guys rules seemed to always be the same . Although in some cases one of the guys were bisexual the other wasn't so it was always a "guys only touch the women" rule for them.
I think it is important that you each understand your partners mind set so it is important you talk about that a lot! In my case it's very simple, I enjoy being watched and I love having two guys pay attention to me. So I think of the extra guy more or less as a living sex toy . I make sure he understands that. He is always aware that this is strictly for the fun and the turn on of having two men as well as being watched but the emotional attachment is too my partner/boyfriend.If the third guy and my partner can't deal with that then we wouldn't be having a threesome .
I am making it clear that they can't just agree to it. They have to be turned on by it. Think of it this way. You decide to have a threesome and during the threesome you see your partner fucking the other guy and she is really enjoying it. He is larger than you in the equipment department and he is doing stuff that just gets her crazy and you never saw her react that way with you. Will that make you jealous? Mad? Excited that she is so turned on? The truth is you wont know until it happens. That's why I said you have to have a strong ego and a strong relationship.
The other thing I feel that is important is that a threesome on an occasional basis is great. DO NOT make it a regular thing it will kill your relationship. Someone will eventually start to feel like one on one isn't enough. Having a threesome with two women and one man is a totally different animal and there is a very good reason I have never done it. I can go into that another time if you would like.I hope this helps you.
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| August 26, 2011, 06:54 |
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rh711
57 / couple
shreveport, Louisiana, US
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Re: Experience with 2 men/1 woman threesome?
I read what u wrote and my wife and I want to have a threesome with a girl. She constantly talks about it when we r having sex. She wants it as bad as me. We don't know where to look or who to ask. I posted twice with no response any advice would be appppreciated
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| September 14, 2011, 13:44 |
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jimlookn
64 / male
leavenworth, Kansas, US
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Re: Experience with 2 men/1 woman threesome?
I'm a man, and totally agree with newbie about this. i have been with couple that were great, we all enjoyed the 3some a lot. but we have been close a long time before. just be sure you both are really wanting this. i can really be fun, don't over do it. hope things work for you two. 
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| November 29, 2011, 20:35 |
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