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Muffinman
32 / male
rockhampton, Queensland, Australia
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my mate gf has lost her sex drive
hey guys i came here to see what yours think and my mate ask me this ?? which i said to him let me think about so i came on here to ask what yours thinks going on so here what he said tell me what you think wrong
I’ve always had a pretty good sex life with my girlfriend, but lately it seems like she’s just lost interest. We used to have great sex a few times a week, but now I’m lucky if I get it once a week. I want my sex life back. Help!
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| May 18, 2009, 02:23 |
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Re: my mate gf has lost her sex drive
I'm no professional and I can't and won't say due to not knowing him or his situation, but maybe there are numerous factors involved, not just one.
xoxo
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| May 18, 2009, 02:28 |
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lonelyandhorny
42 / male
someplace between the borders, Minnesota, US
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Re: my mate gf has lost her sex drive
QUOTE (Muffinman @ May 18, 2009, 02:23)hey guys i came here to see what yours think and my mate ask me this ?? which i said to him let me think about so i came on here to ask what yours thinks going on so here what he said tell me what you think wrong
I’ve always had a pretty good sex life with my girlfriend, but lately it seems like she’s just lost interest. We used to have great sex a few times a week, but now I’m lucky if I get it once a week. I want my sex life back. Help!
take what you can get...i'd love to be able to say i got laid once a week...vs once every year and half or so... 
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| May 18, 2009, 03:04 |
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Muffinman
32 / male
rockhampton, Queensland, Australia
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Re: my mate gf has lost her sex drive
yeah but going down from 7 times a week till one or none thats a big drop dont you think
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| May 18, 2009, 06:35 |
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lonelyandhorny
42 / male
someplace between the borders, Minnesota, US
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Re: my mate gf has lost her sex drive
i guess, but try going from five days a week, to two days a week, to once a month. then i get divorced and it dropped to none, for about 2 years. and now, if i'm lucky, it's once a year.... 
(and i understand where you are coming from, though)
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| May 18, 2009, 06:43 |
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Muffinman
32 / male
rockhampton, Queensland, Australia
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Re: my mate gf has lost her sex drive
the thing is how can he fix it up or what he do to fix it up or what
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| May 18, 2009, 09:29 |
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Chazzy
45 / female
private location, Missouri, US
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Re: my mate gf has lost her sex drive
Allot of things can factor into this, how long have they been together? That honeymoon phase can come and go, it's normal.
Is there any new or stressful things going on at home or at work? Sometimes a little extra stress at work can carry over a make a difference at home.
Is she feeling alright physically? Should she get a check up or maybe she has started taking medication lately? Side effects suck.
And..sorry guys..but men sometimes aren't the best listeners, and often the drop in sex or sex drive isn't the problem, it's the symptom of a problem and she may have already tried to talk about it. So think, has she been trying to talk about something lately? Maybe like wanting more help around the house, or maybe wanting more or the romance of the honeymoon phase, or stuff like that.
If there is a problem, we (women) usually aren't too shy about wanting to talk about it over, so maybe she has tried?
Other than that, it's hard to say without know much more about this couple.
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| May 19, 2009, 13:19 |
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