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CrazyinKS
40 / female
Shawnee, Oklahoma, US
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being in love with a friend that you just sleep with
What should i do if im in love wit hthe man im supposed to be just having fun with, hes also one of my closest friends and we spend alot of time together but i dont think he feels the same way???
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| November 13, 2008, 18:40 |
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Re: being in love with a friend that you just sleep with
That's a tough one girl, guys (some, most, whatever...) do like their " friends with benefits "
Changing a relationship that's working well for him won't be easy, I'm guessing. (Can't say I know him, know anything about him)
This can go several ways, you can tell him and risk losing what you have including the friendship , tell him and you both move on together to something better, or continue with what you already have.
If your in love, that last one is not such a good deal, I know.
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| November 13, 2008, 22:09 |
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Re: being in love with a friend that you just sleep with
If you're close friends, you should be able to tell him without any drastic circumstances. Sure, it'll be awkward at first. He'll either accept it, maybe even feel the same way, or he'll want to remain only friends. You can't let this eat away at you, though. Keeping things like that inside will not make things any easier for you in the long run. You only have one life, grab it by the horns! And best of luck to ya'! 
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| November 14, 2008, 09:13 |
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ashkats
64 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: being in love with a friend that you just sleep with
wow just like a well, a very deep subject.....
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| November 28, 2008, 20:57 |
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Re: being in love with a friend that you just sleep with
It sucks, but just tell him the truth! Nothing hurts like it! MoonHowler is right in that you can't keep it inside. It's like the medicine thing, just swallow it down and move on. Then later keep all friendships professional, that you don't want to push the limits on.
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| November 29, 2008, 18:53 |
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azcapt
79 / male
phoenix, Arizona, US
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Re: being in love with a friend that you just sleep with
QUOTE (CrazyinKS @ November 13, 2008, 18:40)What should i do if im in love wit hthe man im supposed to be just having fun with, hes also one of my closest friends and we spend alot of time together but i dont think he feels the same way???
To love and be loved is the most wonderful thing that can happen between two people. The question is are you sure this is whats happening or are you just satisfying each others needs ???. If you truly feel that you love him, let him know it. Let him know where you stand and find out if he truly feels the same way. If he doesn't then see what can be worked out mutually between the both of you, if he really cares it will work itself out . If he doesn't move on unless you are willing to remain his sexual partner for pleasure only. 
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| December 28, 2008, 17:23 |
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