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Problem or not?
i got a personal question here... is it odd that if i am fooling around with LOTS of teasing ect or am simply not getting any direct contact on my penis, after a while i'll go limp or semi hard or what ever... its no problem getting back up in just a second but once this happens i pretty much loose any control over cumming and although its pretty intense for me when this happens its pretty much a 3 minute guarentee at this point no matter what i do.....
suggestions? sympathy? condolances?? 
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| December 27, 2004, 12:02 |
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Re: Problem or not?
I recommend.. hmmmmm... let's see...a proper solution...I think somehow I might be able to fit some gay oral sex into the fix... let's see...
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| December 27, 2004, 13:25 |
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Re: Problem or not?
UUUhhh- we 'suggest' that you ask Chazzy. We're sure she could fix you 'up' one way or the other. As far as what KB said WELLLL.......
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| December 27, 2004, 14:15 |
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Re: Re: Problem or not?
QUOTE (kbateman @ December 27, 2004, 13:25)I recommend.. hmmmmm... let's see...a proper solution...I think somehow I might be able to fit some gay oral sex into the fix... let's see...
Humm, Kb I don't think that would help him much! 
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| December 27, 2004, 14:20 |
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Re: Problem or not?
like i said, i dont have a problem with getting it back up.... and recovery is not a problem... its just a matter of no self control once in the situation.... i can just no longer "hold out" if i'd like to do so...
and KB  i know its in another thread but with you doing the teasing i probably wouldn't make it long enough to worry about this problem dear. 
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| December 27, 2004, 14:25 |
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Re: Re: Problem or not?
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ December 27, 2004, 14:25)like i said, i dont have a problem with getting it back up.... and recovery is not a problem... its just a matter of no self control once in the situation.... i can just no longer "hold out" if i'd like to do so...
and KB i know its in another thread but with you doing the teasing i probably wouldn't make it long enough to worry about this problem dear.
Good point BCB! Hey three mins. with KB is a lifetime of memories
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| December 27, 2004, 15:20 |
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Re: Problem or not?
Seriously (as if is possible), I don't think this sounds like a problem. Long sessions I have participated in frequently lead to periods of "hard soft hard soft and so on" eventually when I am ready to allow him to finish, he usually cums in incredible volumes and it only takes a minute or two of serious manipulation.
Some of these sessions have lasted as long as 8 hours though. I don't know how long you are playing.. 
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| December 27, 2004, 15:37 |
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Re: Problem or not?
definetely not 8 hours but most times that it has happened its been close to an hour or more...?
and you're right its not really a problem... just would like to have the same control all the time. cant have it all i guess.
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| December 28, 2004, 07:14 |
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EIGHT Hours... Boy what are you taking... You must be the stud in my dreams... Have you ever tried pinching the head just befor you reach you cum. Had a boyfriend I use to do that with and it seemed to help.
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| December 28, 2004, 11:44 |
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enjoya694u
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EIGHT Hours... Boy what are you taking... You must be the stud in my dreams... Have you ever tried pinching the head just befor you reach you cum. Had a boyfriend I use to do that with and it seemed to help.
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| December 28, 2004, 11:45 |
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QUOTE (enjoya694u @ December 28, 2004, 11:44)EIGHT Hours... Boy what are you taking... You must be the stud in my dreams... Have you ever tried pinching the head just befor you reach you cum. Had a boyfriend I use to do that with and it seemed to help.
thanks but i think you're misunderstanding... KB is the 8 hour babe... i'm the 3 minute man.
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| December 28, 2004, 12:18 |
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OOPS... Three minutes... Is that even after you have betten it a few times already that day 
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| December 28, 2004, 13:13 |
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Re: Re: Problem or not?
QUOTE (enjoya694u @ December 28, 2004, 13:13)OOPS... Three minutes... Is that even after you have betten it a few times already that day
lol... the 3 minutes is just a number i pulled out of the air meaning a lot quicker than i'd like..... and only with the above described circumstances. if it helps any i'd guess normally once i'm in and pumpin, its somewhere from 5-15 minutes if no breaks or position changes etc happen?
SO i'm quick and small but i do tend to get the job done with repeat costomers.
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| December 28, 2004, 13:29 |
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Small? Do you get the job done?  How fare are you from Pine Ridge? 
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| December 28, 2004, 14:50 |
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Re: Problem or not?
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ December 27, 2004, 12:02)i got a personal question here... is it odd that if i am fooling around with LOTS of teasing ect or am simply not getting any direct contact on my penis, after a while i'll go limp or semi hard or what ever... its no problem getting back up in just a second but once this happens i pretty much loose any control over cumming and although its pretty intense for me when this happens its pretty much a 3 minute guarentee at this point no matter what i do.....
suggestions? sympathy? condolances??
What you describe,(allowing yourself an erection, then stopping with out cumming), is actually an exercise in learning self control that allot of men practice. It seems to be you do have pretty good self control. I had a friend who's husband had to think about anything BUT sex, during sex, so he wouldn't cum prematurely, geez, now that would really suck!
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| December 28, 2004, 14:54 |
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Re: Problem or not?
I still stand by my earlier statement that a little " gay oral sex " and possibly some manipulation of BCB's member by a member of male persuasion would help him solve his lack of control problem.....
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| December 28, 2004, 15:20 |
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QUOTE (kbateman @ December 28, 2004, 15:20)I still stand by my earlier statement that a little " gay oral sex " and possibly some manipulation of BCB's member by a member of male persuasion would help him solve his lack of control problem.....
LOL!!! you are to much kb,,,luv ya
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| December 28, 2004, 18:39 |
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QUOTE (kbateman @ December 28, 2004, 15:20)I still stand by my earlier statement that a little " gay oral sex " and possibly some manipulation of BCB's member by a member of male persuasion would help him solve his lack of control problem.....
I think its at least worth a little more study. You never know what works until you try.
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| December 28, 2004, 20:12 |
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QUOTE (kbateman @ December 28, 2004, 15:20)I still stand by my earlier statement that a little " gay oral sex " and possibly some manipulation of BCB's member by a member of male persuasion would help him solve his lack of control problem.....
ummm.....I don't know if the " gay oral sex " will be effective enough, if it isn't, maybe " gay anal sex " would do the trick....
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| December 29, 2004, 08:30 |
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Re: Re: Re: Problem or not?
QUOTE (curiousgirl @ December 28, 2004, 20:12) QUOTE (kbateman @ December 28, 2004, 15:20)I still stand by my earlier statement that a little " gay oral sex " and possibly some manipulation of BCB's member by a member of male persuasion would help him solve his lack of control problem.....
I think its at least worth a little more study. You never know what works until you try.
funny girls... funny... i'm sure you're 100% right... that'd stop the "too quick" but then i think i might have a whole new problem... suppose then you'd just suggest that blue pill? 
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| December 29, 2004, 09:49 |
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ December 28, 2004, 14:54)
What you describe,(allowing yourself an erection, then stopping with out cumming), is actually an exercise in learning self control that allot of men practice. It seems to be you do have pretty good self control. I had a friend who's husband had to think about anything BUT sex, during sex, so he wouldn't cum prematurely, geez, now that would really suck!
thats just it chazzy... of course i get an erection at first but amongst the playing or what ever it is i'm doing while i get no stimulation on my member directly, the erection eventually "disappears"... when its time for duty i'm back up in a heartbeat but i loose any and all ability to control myself once i've gone through that cycle.... never really thought about it but suppose it could be over stimulation or something?? oh well, usually the distraction causing the problem takes care of the quick on the trigger anyway... a little more experience maybe is needed. 
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| December 29, 2004, 09:56 |
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Re: Problem or not?
Ok, to put it bluntly, ya just need to jack off more often, but not just jackin it till you spew, but jackin' it till you ALMOST spew, then stop, and do it several times before you allow yourself to ejaculate. While you're doing all this jackin', experiment with applying pressure at the base of your cock till you learn what spot and how much pressure allows you to control your erections and orgasms.( This is the principle that cock rings are based on, decreasing the blood flow) Once you learn more about yourself and your dick, you can learn to have multiple orgams, stronger orgasms, and for once in your life, maybe be the boss of your dick instead of vice versa !! 
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| December 29, 2004, 16:38 |
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Re: Problem or not?
I agree with Chazzy, except for that she didn't suggest any "GOS".
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| December 30, 2004, 05:14 |
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guess i wasnt clear in trying to be humble... i can control myself quite well.... thats why i'm here asking. once in a while when during the course of foreplay, oral, etc when i'm in that hard-soft-hard-soft cycle... then i loose that control once its time to actually get to the thrusting..... getting erect has never been a question, yet. thanks for the thoughts and such though. 
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