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wally4U
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Las Vegas, Nevada, US
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anal for the first time
 Happy Holidays to all heres the big ??? How do you ease your mate into anal? first shes affraid from all shes read that 1. it will hutr not just the first time but all the time,2. Is concerned about the medical risks to repeatly doing this. 
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| December 7, 2004, 03:28 |
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Re: anal for the first time
First ask her if she is willing to try it at all. If not you will just have to forget it.
Second, begin with small objects, no larger than your fingers. Use some sort of lubrication and plenty of it.
If she is still willing to continue, then use plenty of lubrication and GENTLY work your dick into her butt. Don't pound away, just go slowly and let her adjust and I am sure she will allow it from that day on.
As long as you remain gentle and do not get too vigorous, the medical risks are minimal.
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| December 7, 2004, 05:41 |
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Re: anal for the first time
...what she said....
also relaxation is key, tons of foreplay (and now for my signature phrase...... a good alcohol buzz and an hour or so of good hardcore porn always works for me)
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| December 8, 2004, 04:24 |
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Re: anal for the first time
Injury from anal sex is not common amoung consensual partners,it's so very, very, rare. Injuries comes from extremely rough,aggressive sex acts or rape. If the act of anal sex is too rough then injuries and problems like anal fissures(a tear),anorectal abscess.(anorectal abscess, perianal abscess, or rectal abscess, are when a tear, cut, or fissure become infected) These health problems are NOT going to be an issue with an intelligent, consensual couple that proceed patiently, slowly, gently. There's nothing for your mate to be afraid of as long as you are a trustworthy partner, and allow her to control how much, when etc...
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| December 9, 2004, 08:26 |
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uncut7in
76 / male
Cambridge, England, UK
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Re: anal for the first time
I'm gay so quite experienced in anal sex , though I've given it more than received it. I guess it's much the same whether it's male or female ass.
I would start off with lots of sexy foreplay to get both partners thoroughly aroused. Using a good water-based lubricant and one, then two and three fingers, get my partner used to the feeling of having something up the ass. Then I would substitute my rubbered cock, again well lubricated. I would push slowly and firmly, and let my partner tell me if it was OK. If not I would back off, relax then try again. I've got a big cockhead, so once that's past the sphincter the rest follows easily. I would start with long, slow strokes until my partner was used to the feel of my cock, then step up the tempo.
Experiment with different positions until you find the most comfortable one. Probably the best two to start with are doggy fashion, or on your back with your legs over the male's shoulders. Another you could try would be for the male to lie on his back, and his partner to straddle him and lower her/himself onto his erect cock. This allows the person being fucked to control the speed and depth of penetration.
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| January 7, 2005, 15:34 |
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Re: anal for the first time
Page 7 of general discussions, "THE BEST "HOW TO" INFO ON ANAL SEX "
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| January 8, 2005, 16:37 |
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Re: anal for the first time
ahh anal sex its so much fun , did you see the article in the december playboy called taboo sex my sentiments exactly .
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