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new & nervous
i have tried to contact other members via sending messages, but have got no reply from anyone. am i doing something wrong?
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| May 15, 2005, 20:12 |
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Re: new & nervous
Probably not ...a lot of people just do'nt answer or they will receive the message later...
Good Luck and keep trying !!!!
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| May 15, 2005, 20:18 |
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Re: new & nervous
QUOTE (shaner @ May 15, 2005, 20:12)i have tried to contact other members via sending messages, but have got no reply from anyone. am i doing something wrong?
Send me a message, I will surley answer you, at least you will know if its working or not.
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| May 15, 2005, 21:39 |
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Re: new & nervous
QUOTE (shaner @ May 15, 2005, 20:12)i have tried to contact other members via sending messages, but have got no reply from anyone. am i doing something wrong?
When checking out profiles and sending messages, it might be helpful to check out the "last seen online" thing. Those who log in frequently are more likely to check their mail and reply.
Then there are those like me, I tend to get a little behind in reading and replying to mail.
Some messages I do respond to immediatlely. I can't exactly pinpoint why,there's just something there that makes it easy to reply too, kinda like an "icebreaker" type thing.
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| May 16, 2005, 05:25 |
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Re: new & nervous
You need to be very specific and realize that most women aren't looking for a married man who just wants a fling, most are looking for their next flame.
but the other answer is to keep on sending the mails and see what might come up.
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| May 16, 2005, 06:00 |
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Re: new & nervous
...and let me add one more thing. A photo is always a big plus.
If you're nervous about showing your face, or just a little to shy to post a full body naked nudie, getting a little creative can be even better!
Some extremely exciting and interesting photos I've seen on this site are of a woman's lips with her finger in that "hush" or secret "ssshhhhh!" fashion, and a hot men 's photo I like is just off the torso and his unzipped jeans.
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| May 16, 2005, 06:56 |
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Re: new & nervous
Thanks to all of you for the feedback. I do not post photo of my face because you never know who's looking. However I could get creative in other areas. Finding someone to take a good photo of me is the problem. I will work on it.
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| May 16, 2005, 09:34 |
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Re: new & nervous
you could get a web cam and take your own photo??
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| May 17, 2005, 19:56 |
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Re: Re: new & nervous
QUOTE (shaner @ May 16, 2005, 09:34)Thanks to all of you for the feedback. I do not post photo of my face because you never know who's looking. However I could get creative in other areas. Finding someone to take a good photo of me is the problem. I will work on it.
The old bag over the head trick works for me. oooh..
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Re: Re: new & nervous
QUOTE (kbateman @ May 16, 2005, 06:00)You need to be very specific and realize that most women aren't looking for a married man who just wants a fling, most are looking for their next flame.
but the other answer is to keep on sending the mails and see what might come up.
interesting insight, as some of us who are 'married' but not looking for a fling but need someone who can accept our status as it is right now as we dont want to go into detail or start off on a lie, can you help us to hone our ads?
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| May 23, 2005, 15:43 |
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Re: Re: Re: new & nervous
QUOTE (allon @ May 23, 2005, 15:43)'married' but not looking for a fling but need someone who can accept our status as it is right now as we dont want to go into detail or start off on a lie
Well, I think you what you just said right here is honest and clear, and would make an excellent ad !
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