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Is my pussy too tight?
I've got a problem finding a man that is well-endowed and can last longer that 3 minutes when his cock is inside me.
When I was 12 years old my mother taught me the Kaegel? excercises which tone and strengthen the muscles inside the walls of "the vagina" she would say. There are various techniques and types of excercises you can do and so for more than 24 years i have been building these muscles. My pussy is in better shape than the rest of me.  Anyway...I'll get all hot and bothered and so will he and he will put it in and stop for a few, and a about a half dozen thrusts later I am full of cum and very frustrated. My partner tells me his is very sensitive and it hurts to touch his cock and to fuck me anymore after he cums. What is the best, easiest , fastest way to combat premature ejaculation? Should I start looking for a partner with a smaller cock? Should I buy a super-size dildo to stretch my pussy out? I'm so frustrated!  I've run out of ideas. ..and am now open to any suggestions! 
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| November 8, 2007, 22:26 |
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
I do Kegels too, but sometimes...ya gotta cut back on them, I'd quit them for a little while, and when you go back to them, keep it at several times a week and not everyday.
And your idea of using a dildo first...that should help!
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| November 8, 2007, 22:30 |
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
I do them too.
There are alot of things you can do to slow down the premature ejaculation, look it up online. I don't think a big vibrator is a bad idea, it could be fun for both of you!!! :MM: 
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| November 9, 2007, 12:46 |
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
Thank you girls!
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| November 9, 2007, 19:24 |
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Mooant
42 / male
New Britain, Connecticut, US
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
I'm sure I'd last longer than a couple minutes with you hon.
But in all seriousness, its mostly something on the guys side that you have the problem with. Just like with the male member, the inside walls of the vagina will shrink and expand as you are excited. If you ever feel him hit deep within you, then it might be a problem on your end with not being ready enough for him, but otherwise its just that he needs to learn techniques to control himself (especially with a tight pussy , Mmmm)
I know its difficult for a lot of guys to do this, but the best thing to do to make a man last longer is to have him think about things that turn him off. Just be careful he doesn't lose his courage because of this...
Also, foreplay is key in an effective sexual relationship . Its kinda obvious that he doesn't need too much extra help, so maybe cut back on the foreplay on his end, but at the same time you should be increasing the foreplay on your end. The more ready you are when he inserts into you, the less time you'll need him to be inside of you without getting frustrated.
The best piece of advice is to relax as much as possible (especially with a tight pussy , Mmmm). the more relaxed you are, the more open your vagina becomes, making it less tight for your partner. At the same time, you'll be able to enjoy it more for the time you have. Let's face it though, the more pressure their is to perform, the less the chance there will actually be a performance...
Now that's all I can think of for now, but I will return with more if I can think of it. I may not be overly active here like I used to be, but I still talk a lot! If all else fails, you can always visit me in CT and I'll help to stretch you out. 
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| November 9, 2007, 21:12 |
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pookhabear
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port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
I agree, can be hard to do but thinking of something else does work.
If it's premature ejaculation , finding a smaller penis isn't going to help, his other head is where the problem is , the one most men don't use when it comes to sex 
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| November 9, 2007, 21:31 |
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
I know the "thinking of something else" does work, but I gotta say, I never really liked the idea of having a man with me, but thinking of baseball, or his work, etc...
A cock ring, or a few fingers firmly applying pressure around the base of the cock will help slow it down too..
It's what cock rings were designed for...as a marital aid just for premature ejaculation.
(they make a cool one...it's a cock ring with a anal dildo attached, you get the dp action with just one man!)
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| November 10, 2007, 08:04 |
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
Thank you to all that replied! I am going shopping for that cock ring in the morning! I'll let you know how everything turned out. Thanks for all the advice!
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| November 13, 2007, 13:24 |
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hotguy4u2833
58 / male
Roswell, Georgia, US
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Re: Re: Is my pussy too tight?
QUOTE (Orgasmikgrrl @ November 13, 2007, 13:24)Thank you to all that replied! I am going shopping for that cock ring in the morning! I'll let you know how everything turned out. Thanks for all the advice!
Hon, I would gently lick your clit, pussy and asshole for a couple of hours before I slipped my member into your love canal to get you comfortable and relaxed. I would encourage you to empty your bowels of any excess gas or air before I did the deed on you.
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| December 24, 2007, 17:50 |
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
The cock ring worked! Now if I can only get him to come to bed when I do...again.
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| January 1, 2008, 13:38 |
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Re: Re: Is my pussy too tight?
QUOTE (Orgasmikgrrl @ January 1, 2008, 13:38)The cock ring worked! Now if I can only get him to come to bed when I do...again.
Ahhh! I think maybe you shoulda gotten the cock ring with the leash and lead attached to it?
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| January 1, 2008, 18:26 |
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XATAR
54 / male
XHAGIRA, Malta
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
does not he think beter not start with you by a loaded gun!? he should come before you actualy think of making love.Masurbation is the key!than he should go down on you sometimes!no?hide that monster at last minute man!
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| January 1, 2008, 19:10 |
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
i love a tight pussy
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| March 14, 2008, 14:31 |
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kily30
44 / male
cairo, Egypt
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
you need big and hard cock
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| March 23, 2008, 08:32 |
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
Didn't know there was such a thing!I enjoy one wrapped tightly around me,will admit it makes me get off more quickly at times.Not hung like a horse here,so tightness is up there on the list!Relax and go with the flow!
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| April 14, 2008, 13:53 |
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Re: Is my pussy too tight?
Love a tight pussy . It's more intimate when you have to work slowly and coax the pussy to accommodate. MMMmmm.
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