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The most intriguing fish in the pond is the married woman. I ask myself what it is that she is actually looking for.
If it a married man there is the assumption, and sometimes their profile will be open enough to say, that they are looking for sex.
The married woman on the other hand is not usually so forthcoming with her desires or intent. There are a few that say that they are looking for a mind-blowing sexual encounter but these are rare and in my experience they are more interested in the attention that they receive by what they have written as opposed to having any serious thoughts about it.

My assumption is, and would appreciate any input to the contrary, that the married woman is seeking what she is missing from her present relationship. She is looking for an escape from the life that she is leading. She may have a partner that doesn’t listen, one that takes her for granted, one that is controlling or abusive or she might be so lucky to have a partner that loves her dearly but she finds her life to be excruciatingly dull. Whatever the reason she finds herself being drawn outside of her present relationship to see what is out there.

What she finds is a stable of men willing to assist her with her. While the attention may be pleasant at first, having men making her the centre of attention, in the long run it may be realized that this approach is very superficial. If the attention givers are not suitably rewarded for their endeavors they fade away.
It is the assumption of many of these men that a woman that is disillusioned with her relationship is missing something. They assume that what is missing is sex and they are willing to step up and assist the damsel in distress. While their assumption may be true, it is in most cases a lack of intimacy on the whole.
The emotional integrity of her relationship has been compromised and with it the intimacy that once existed.

I hear women say all the time that they have no reason to look for sex; they can get it any time. If a married woman was just looking for sex, then why would one spend so much time on-line looking for something that might be as close as the guy that lives next door?
The reason as I see it is that there is a greater desire under the surface and that is to find a man that is interested in her as a person. One that has a desire to listen, one that has no reason to take her for granted, no reason to try and control her and because they do not have the makings of a traditional relationship, it is less apt to get boring.

While some men can form an entire relationship on the physical aspects, women tend to relate on a more emotional level first. If there is an emotional connection, then they are more apt to get involved on a physical level.

There is not a great difference between a single or married woman in what she is seeking. The single woman is looking for someone that she can form a relationship with. The married woman is seeking to form a relationship with someone.
The only difference is that the single woman has the ability to make a commitment on paper and the married woman already has made this commitment to someone else.
Typically I find that the single women that I have met have a preconceived notion as to what they want and are very, very possessive. I have had so many read into conversations that I may have had with them something more than I have actually stated. Within a short period of time they want to know everything I’m doing, where I’m going, why I’m going...and the list goes on. In a nutshell, they take a considerable amount of time to converse with. The conversation goes from depth of learning about a person to what comes across to me as a desire to subtly control me.
I do not want to be controlled. I don’t even want to think that someone may be trying to do that. I set my own personal parameters; they are most assuredly not being set by someone that I have met on-line and never in person.

I am in an interesting position for the first time in my life:

I have the freedom to make decisions without another person trying to dissuade me to think otherwise.

I do not have to tell anyone what I am doing, feeling or thinking unless I want to.

I have no lack of willing single sexual partners. If one does not have this advantage then they tend to elevate its importance and it becomes one of, or their only, goal. I choose not to partake as it may be misconstrued as being more than that.

This freedom is very important to me. I am in a state of personal growth and repair at present, and am best to figure out my answers on my own.

This brings me to the married woman. While many of my male competitor’s in the dating arena are so sure that she is looking for sex alone, my thoughts are that there is something far more substantial. If I am thinking in the right direction and she has some synergy in these thoughts, I may have a chance to meet someone with whom a relationship of sorts could be formed. She already has parameters in place that prevent her from becoming unreasonable about her expectations, she is married. I do not have the time for the drama of dating single women.

In browsing the profiles I see the same attributes are desired by both single and married women alike; Honesty, no head-games, respect.
If a married person is on here seeking something outside of their present relationship, where is the honesty? Are they not the perpetrator of the head-game? Why should they be respected?
I think sometimes the married woman is setting herself up. She writes one thing but is in fact another. She is seeking integrity but in fact she is a cheater.
My point in this is that it doesn’t matter to me. I feel that the married but looking woman is seeking emotional integrity and intimacy.

This is the same thing that I am looking for. If you truly desire a committed, honest, respectful relationship outside of your present one, be honest with yourself and talk to me.

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	In My Gang-Bang Fantasy Anything Goes, Especially Through The Back Door A great number of our emails ask for me to write a story of my own. So here it is. It's about a fantasy that I had until it became a reality thanks to my husband. Hope you like. * "Yeah! Yeah! Fuck my ass! Fuck it raw! Fuck it good! Give me what I want!" I was watching a pornographic movie. There were eight men on one woman. One man was underneath the woman with his cock in her pussy. Another man was on top of her, shoving his big meat into her swollen pink asshole. He kept pulling out to show the camera how puffy and open her hole looked, and then he slowly plunged back in. Again and again he pulled out of her anus and then rammed himself back, causing the woman's face to contort with ecstasy. I was stroking my clit with my dildo, watching the pleasure this woman was taking from these men, wishing that I were she. I constantly fantasize about being gloriously gang-banged by a bunch of bad boys wanting to fuck me. I get off on the thought of sticking my ass in the air in front of them and saying, "Come on, boys, fuck my pussy! Give me what I want! Give my pussy some cock!" In my fantasy I reach around and spread my ass for them to see. Then I feel a lubed finger probing at my asshole, a large digit penetrating my anus. "Ooh, what are you doing?" I say innocently "Don't you want to fuck my pussy first?" "Oh, I'm going to fuck your pussy all right," the man who is fingering me, says. "Don't you worry about that? But I'm going to stick it into your asshole first." "My asshole! But I have never had a cock in there before," I say, feeling naiveté. "Are you sure you want to put your penis into my bum? It will feel so funny!" "Oh come on, you'll like it, baby. You want to feel real good, don't you?" "Really?" I say, looking up at the man with innocent doe eyes. "Will it feel good?" Meanwhile I am wiggling my ass in anticipation. "Oh yeah, it'll feel real good. Just let me put my hands on your bum cheeks and spread them a little, that's a good girl. Oh yeah, you're a sweet girl. You know, you have a really nice ass. A lot of men would love to look at it. In fact, I bet a lot of men would like to put their penises inside it." "Really?" I reply innocently "Oh yeah. Look at all these men here; they all want to stick their cocks inside you. They all want you. Do you want them?" "I guess so. Do you want me to keep my bum in the air like this?" I ask in my girlish voice. "Oh yeah, baby, that's great. Now just relax. I'm going to keep spreading your ass so we can all see. Now my buddy here is going to push his penis against your asshole. So just relax and take it like a good girl." "Okay," I say Another man's big hands are on my ass now, spreading my cheeks apart. A hard object is being pushed against my anus. Two men are in front of me. One of them presses his big penis against my mouth and says in a gentle voice, "Suck on this, baby, it'll help you to relax." I open my mouth and do what he says. The other man puts his hands on my shoulders, and then slides them down to my breasts. I love this. Then I feel a big cock pushing against my anus again. "Ooh, yeah!" I moan. "Yeah, baby take that big dick!" The head of his dick pokes into my asshole. He spreads my ass cheeks further to get a better view and to give his cock an advantage. He puts some lube around the shaft of his cock, and then plunges forward. "Ahhh, baby, yeah!" I yell. "Penetrate that ass! Fuck it! Fuck it good!" The cock slipping into my anus feels as big as my arm. "Yeah, baby, you got a sweet little asshole!" my lover groans. "Ooh yeah, baby! Yeah!" My asshole is now being fucked like a pussy, I have another man's big cock in my mouth, and I can't get enough. "Yeah, baby" the man fucking me says. "See, it feels good having a stranger's big dick up your ass, doesn't it? Yeah, you like it, all right, I can tell. You're a regular little cock lover. Ooh, I love fucking this ass. Do you like it baby?" "Oh yeah! Fuck my ass!" I cry, "Fuck it like a man! Fuck it baby, yeah! Oh yeah! Oh God!" "Hey how about giving me a turn?" I hear another voice say. Suddenly my asshole is empty I start whimpering and rotating my ass in the air, begging for more. "Ohhh, somebody fuck my ass. It needs a cock," I moan. "How is it?" the new voice says. "Try it for yourself," is the reply. I feel another cock being pushed into my lubed asshole. "You ready for more dick, baby?" "Oh yeah, baby. Give it to me! Fuck my ass! Fuck it good! Show me you're a man!" I am almost sobbing with need. "Alright baby here it comes." As he jams himself into me, I push my ass right back onto his big dick. "Holy fuck! She's actually fucking my dick with her asshole!" "Oh yeah! Do me! Do me! Fuck my ass! Fuck it good! Yeah, baby! Fuck me! That's a good boy! Fuck it!" I yell. "Yeah, that's a good girl, fuck that dick with your asshole. Good girl, good girl! Yeah, fuck that big dick. Oh Christ, yeah, that's good!" "I want to be in her pussy," another voice says. "What do you say, baby? You want more dick?" "Oh yeah! Please! Give me more cock!" The man in my ass pulls out and moves around me, waving his glistening penis in my face. "Suck it baby, suck your sweet ass taste off my cock." I start sucking his dick with fervor. "Get on top of me and fuck me, baby," another man says. I climb on top of him and squat on his penis. "Ohh, that feels good in my pussy," I moan. "Umm, yeah, pump that pussy, baby!" I am sucking madly on one man's cock while fucking another with my throbbing cunt. "Hey, how about letting me into that sweet ass of yours, baby?" I hear another man say, and I cry out with passion as I feel another cock being pushed into my asshole. "Ohh yeah, you feel that, baby?" he says. "Yeah, I'm sliding in now. Yeah, oohh yeah! Damn, my cock is all the way up your ass now. You want me to fuck you, baby? Hmmm?" "Yeah, fuck me hard! Hard, damn you! Don't be a pussy! Fuck me like a real man!" "Okay, baby, whatever you say," the man says, and with that he starts pounding my asshole like it was an eighteen-year-old pussy. My asshole is being fucked raw and I am fucking loving it! "Oh yeah, feel that cock slipping in and out of your sweet ass, feel it fucking your hole! Yeah, baby, yeah, you love it, don't you? Yeah, you love that cock!" "Ooohh yes!" I shout. "Fuck my anus! Yeah, fuck it hard! Make me scream! Ahhh yes! Ohhh fuck, I'm coming! I'm coming! Ahh shit, yeah!" And I scream in ecstasy as I come over and over again. I feel a hot load being pumped into my anus as I climax, and this causes the man in my pussy to shoot his wad. A couple of other guys shoot off on my face and into my mouth. I have come dripping off me and spilling out of my pussy and rectum. In my fantasy, these men go on fucking my cunt, my asshole and my mouth for hours and hours and I love every second of it!
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