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You Gotta get In to Get Out
Slim, fit 40 yr. old male. 6ft 1in., 155 lbs, dark blonde, brown eyed, very clean. I'm told I resemble a cross between Peter Murphy of Bauhaus and Richard Butler of the Psychedelic Furs; if that tells you anything ( but a little more toned, since I work out ). But I'm not Mel Gibson if that's your thing. I'm told I have a "broadcaster's voice", which I can use very poignantly . Some usefull Facts:
I work as a veterinary assistant in surgery and radiology in an animal hospital in town ( but I don't make a lot of dough, so gold-diggers apply elsewhere, please : ). I read very widely, particularly in the hard sciences, ancient history and Elizabethan poetry. I'm pretty amiable, and easy to get along with when not in Dom "mode" except when I'm cursing at malfunctioning machines - LOL! I love to have dumb, simple fun as well as protracted deep discussions. I have a zany sense of humor with an acute feel for the absurd; kinda Monty Pythonesque I suppose. I'm big on personal hygiene and expect the same of someone I'm involved with,
mainly for erotic reasons but also cause I'm into aromas and the taste of every knoll and crevice of a lady's body - Yum! Let's see - stuff I love, in no particular order: Classical music, Gothic rock, 70's rock, island biogeography, juciy steaks, sci-fi movies, brooding foreign films, chessy horror flicks, Sumerian history, physics, Ralph Nader, jumping in a car and driving wherever inspiration calls,Thomas Pynchon novels, Ben&Jerry's Cherry Garcia, cuddling in bed, throwing sports boomerangs,discussing sociological trends, Pictionary, watching hockey, campfire parties, bitching about how messed up the economy is, Icelandic Sagas, deconstructing Deconstruction, vacuuming my rugs,(!), care and maintenance of domestic animals, early Mondrian paintings, and Raspberry Jell -O!
I am very understanding of human foibles, "flaws", weaknesses, and "baggage"; don't worry about scaring me away with your problems; UNLESS they involve the one characteristic I on principle can't abide - cruelty of any kind; pointless belligerance, petty hostility, and any sort of relishment of another's discomfiture. In other words, don't be mean for no justifiable reason; that just tells me you are very immature. Getting pissed off is all fine, just don't get your rocks off laughing at other's misery .I.E.; be nice to the waitress ; )
So, Sex: I am a dominant in the bedroom, but easy-going in the daylight. I want to emphasize a basic aspect of my nature from the outset; I love to see a woman ENJOY her submissive side; my pleasure comes from HER having pleasure indulging the primal erotics of her darker cravings. I am a firm believer in "safe, sane and consensual" participation; there are few things I wouldn't do for a hungry submissive - if you're not getting something out of it , I don't want to do it. I have been in a rather long and loving relationship until about a year and a half ago and know very well the joy of mutual ecstasy and have quite a bit of Dom experience, so I understand complimentary needs being fullfilled;
if you're experienced in BDSM, or if you're bright and have ruminated on the psychology of so-called deviant expressions of sexuality, or even if you've just seen "Secretary" and "got it", then you don't need a lecture from me. If you're a rather timorous newbie and a lttle wary, then I can tell you that the old saw about getting to know and trust someone holds water very well . Take as much time as you need and feel out the person and go from there.O.k.-
Activities : I'm into restraining, blindfolds, crops, toys, clamps, hot wax, spanking, fantasy play , teasing and tantalizing, and certain kinds of voyeurism. Total domination with the panoply of devices with the right person. I of course enjoy showing affection as well, and express my caring with kisses, licks, caresses and tendernesses which I feel are part of the true intimacy of BDSM. I like to think I have a good grip on the psychology of why we manifest and need to release these urgings, and so though I am temperamentally on the "inside" a dominant, I live in the real worlld and know the boundaries, so, I respect privacy and personal space completely. By the way, I don't "stalk" - that's pointless and idiotic; I hope you don't either. I'm very tolerant of a lot of human faults and am not afraid of someone's "baggage", as long as it doesn't involve cruelty and malice ( in other words, "mean people suck" ). There's a big difference between the context-specific release of a Dom's "sterness" when disciplining a sub, and folks who are simply mean and thoughtless, so if you have hostility issues please apply elsewhere.
Looking for: A woman between the ages of 29 and 50 ( ideally, around age 44, since I tend to prefer mature women ), who loves to dress enticingly and is clean, for starters. Height is completely irrelevant, and weight for the most part, but beacuse I'm kinda slim, the dynamics of the bedroom would be optimal with someone who doesn't outweigh me by a lot... I'm willing to be special lovers only, if that's what you want, but am certainly interested in a lot more if it's mutually desired. I want someone who wants to explore and indulge her kinks with full freedom and comfort - "comfort" in a twisted sort of way ( LOL) - [ NO deep dysfunctionals, please! : ) ]. I'm not a "switch", so you should be an established submissive while "in scenario"; outside scenario be what you are : ) . Alluring aromas are major turn-ons since I like to swirl my tongue on every knoll and in every crevice...intelligence is a real big bonus, but you don't have to be a Rhodes Scholar because I certainly am not...snappy sense of humor is pretty crucial because I don't want to have to explain my dumb jokes all the time. : }...Clothing : you MUST enjoy appreciating your femininity fully - that means wearing sexy, horniness-inducing lingerie, alternative apparal, nylons ( yummy!) heels, etc. ; no hippy apparell, o.k?
If there are any particular issues or concerns you have about anything in sex or life, I'd love to talk and see what we can work out. Keep cool.
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About Me
LOOKING FOR: One Night Stand, Erotic Chat/E-Mail, Discreet Relationship, Swinging Couple or Partner, 1-on-1 Sex, Casual Encounters, Bondage & Discipline, Long Term Relationship, Other or Special Interest
LOCATION:
Buffalo, New York, United States
GENDER: Man
AGE: 57
SEEKING: Women
BODY TYPE: Slim
HEIGHT: 6' 1" (185 cm)
WEIGHT: 156 Lbs. (71 Kg.)
HAIR COLOR: Dirty Blonde
RACE: Caucasian
PROFILE: Slim, fit 40 yr. old male. 6ft 1in., 155 lbs, dark blonde, brown eyed, very clean. I'm told I resemble a cross between Peter Murphy of Bauhaus and Richard Butler of the Psychedelic Furs; if that tells you anything ( but a little more toned, since I work out ). But I'm not Mel Gibson if that's your thing. I'm told I have a "broadcaster's voice", which I can use very poignantly . Some usefull Facts:
I work as a veterinary assistant in surgery and radiology in an animal hospital in town ( but I don't make a lot of dough, so gold-diggers apply elsewhere, please : ). I read very widely, particularly in the hard sciences, ancient history and Elizabethan poetry. I'm pretty amiable, and easy to get along with when not in Dom "mode" except when I'm cursing at malfunctioning machines - LOL! I love to have dumb, simple fun as well as protracted deep discussions. I have a zany sense of humor with an acute feel for the absurd; kinda Monty Pythonesque I suppose. I'm big on personal hygiene and expect the same of someone I'm involved with,
mainly for erotic reasons but also cause I'm into aromas and the taste of every knoll and crevice of a lady's body - Yum! Let's see - stuff I love, in no particular order: Classical music, Gothic rock, 70's rock, island biogeography, juciy steaks, sci-fi movies, brooding foreign films, chessy horror flicks, Sumerian history, physics, Ralph Nader, jumping in a car and driving wherever inspiration calls,Thomas Pynchon novels, Ben&Jerry's Cherry Garcia, cuddling in bed, throwing sports boomerangs,discussing sociological trends, Pictionary, watching hockey, campfire parties, bitching about how messed up the economy is, Icelandic Sagas, deconstructing Deconstruction, vacuuming my rugs,(!), care and maintenance of domestic animals, early Mondrian paintings, and Raspberry Jell -O!
I am very understanding of human foibles, "flaws", weaknesses, and "baggage"; don't worry about scaring me away with your problems; UNLESS they involve the one characteristic I on principle can't abide - cruelty of any kind; pointless belligerance, petty hostility, and any sort of relishment of another's discomfiture. In other words, don't be mean for no justifiable reason; that just tells me you are very immature. Getting pissed off is all fine, just don't get your rocks off laughing at other's misery .I.E.; be nice to the waitress ; )
So, Sex: I am a dominant in the bedroom, but easy-going in the daylight. I want to emphasize a basic aspect of my nature from the outset; I love to see a woman ENJOY her submissive side; my pleasure comes from HER having pleasure indulging the primal erotics of her darker cravings. I am a firm believer in "safe, sane and consensual" participation; there are few things I wouldn't do for a hungry submissive - if you're not getting something out of it , I don't want to do it. I have been in a rather long and loving relationship until about a year and a half ago and know very well the joy of mutual ecstasy and have quite a bit of Dom experience, so I understand complimentary needs being fullfilled;
if you're experienced in BDSM, or if you're bright and have ruminated on the psychology of so-called deviant expressions of sexuality, or even if you've just seen "Secretary" and "got it", then you don't need a lecture from me. If you're a rather timorous newbie and a lttle wary, then I can tell you that the old saw about getting to know and trust someone holds water very well . Take as much time as you need and feel out the person and go from there.O.k.-
Activities : I'm into restraining, blindfolds, crops, toys, clamps, hot wax, spanking, fantasy play , teasing and tantalizing, and certain kinds of voyeurism. Total domination with the panoply of devices with the right person. I of course enjoy showing affection as well, and express my caring with kisses, licks, caresses and tendernesses which I feel are part of the true intimacy of BDSM. I like to think I have a good grip on the psychology of why we manifest and need to release these urgings, and so though I am temperamentally on the "inside" a dominant, I live in the real worlld and know the boundaries, so, I respect privacy and personal space completely. By the way, I don't "stalk" - that's pointless and idiotic; I hope you don't either. I'm very tolerant of a lot of human faults and am not afraid of someone's "baggage", as long as it doesn't involve cruelty and malice ( in other words, "mean people suck" ). There's a big difference between the context-specific release of a Dom's "sterness" when disciplining a sub, and folks who are simply mean and thoughtless, so if you have hostility issues please apply elsewhere.
Looking for: A woman between the ages of 29 and 50 ( ideally, around age 44, since I tend to prefer mature women ), who loves to dress enticingly and is clean, for starters. Height is completely irrelevant, and weight for the most part, but beacuse I'm kinda slim, the dynamics of the bedroom would be optimal with someone who doesn't outweigh me by a lot... I'm willing to be special lovers only, if that's what you want, but am certainly interested in a lot more if it's mutually desired. I want someone who wants to explore and indulge her kinks with full freedom and comfort - "comfort" in a twisted sort of way ( LOL) - [ NO deep dysfunctionals, please! : ) ]. I'm not a "switch", so you should be an established submissive while "in scenario"; outside scenario be what you are : ) . Alluring aromas are major turn-ons since I like to swirl my tongue on every knoll and in every crevice...intelligence is a real big bonus, but you don't have to be a Rhodes Scholar because I certainly am not...snappy sense of humor is pretty crucial because I don't want to have to explain my dumb jokes all the time. : }...Clothing : you MUST enjoy appreciating your femininity fully - that means wearing sexy, horniness-inducing lingerie, alternative apparal, nylons ( yummy!) heels, etc. ; no hippy apparell, o.k?
If there are any particular issues or concerns you have about anything in sex or life, I'd love to talk and see what we can work out. Keep cool.
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